I post in waves. I spend a few months away when nothing interests me and come back when something does. I would only stop altogether if someone insults me or feels insulted by somethning I say---apologies to anyone if I offend!
Soledad
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Sweet Revenge
by JH inhas it ever occured to you to think about doing something nasty towards the elders of your congregation after being disfellowshipped?
do you ever get ideas about getting even with them?
maybe your way of getting even is just by being here on this forum and letting everyone know about them.edited by - jh on 16 december 2002 18:19:0.
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Soledad
BTW what ever happens to those letters that people who want to DA write? Im dying to find out where mine is, and who else has read it.
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I've never lived
by DanTheMan inbeen doing a lot of reflecting lately, about my life and this crazy world.. fear has dominated my life.
i have barely lived because of it.
i just exist, that's about it.. when i was growing up, it was bullies at school.
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Soledad
this sounds kind of serious dan. would you consider medical help? looks like you're depressed.
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Evil CO's wives
by PopeOfEruke indoes anyone remember particularly evil wives of circuit overseers?.
i remember one, a little chinese "lady" known as norma.
absolutely hated kids.
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Soledad
I remember one in particular that just rubbed me the wrong way---I guess she was some sort of singer/songwriter prior to coming into the borg. During the singing you could only hear her voice reverberating throughout the entire hall, upstairs and downstairs. Everyone would constatntly compliment her "oh what a beautiful voice" Please!! And the way everyone would kiss up to the COs and Bethelites was unreal!! No wonder they were all stuck up.
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Being a JW has made me bitter
by mamashel inover the last year after leaving the organization, i have done much research and read many books on the topic of jw's.
i have found peace in the fact that i truely believe that it is a false religion and that i want nothing to do with it ever again.
my problem is that i have been through, like most of you alot of emotions such as fear, anger, stupidity, (that i could allow myself to get involved so deeply in something), and many other feelings too.
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Soledad
you have to give yourself some time mamashel. I think the experience of leaving the org is similar to losing a friend or relative, you grieve for a while, even if the grief is diguised by anger and bitterness, but it is grief. I think that timeframes vary for everyone, one year is way to recent IMO so it's quite normal and ok if you feel angry; I dont know how long you were a JW but if it was a long time I know it can be quite difficult. Best of luck to you, you and your husband are in my thoughts.
Miriam
DA in 1998
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Religion is good for you!! Really!!
by Soledad inhttp://channels.netscape.com/ns/news/package.jsp?name=religious_people/religious_people
do religious people really live longer?the answer seems to be a resounding yes, if you believe 42 scientific studies that examined the link between religious involvement and mortality that were reviewed by the national institute for healthcare research in rockville, maryland.
the statistic: the people who were most involved in their religions were 29 percent more likely to be alive when the various studies were completed than were their nonreligious counterparts, reports webmd.. why?
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Soledad
http://channels.netscape.com/ns/news/package.jsp?name=religious_people/religious_people
Do Religious People Really Live Longer? The answer seems to be a resounding YES, if you believe 42 scientific studies that examined the link between religious involvement and mortality that were reviewed by the National Institute for Healthcare Research in Rockville, Maryland. The statistic: The people who were most involved in their religions were 29 percent more likely to be alive when the various studies were completed than were their nonreligious counterparts, reports WebMD. Why?
The short answer is that religious people tend to drink and smoke less and are less obese than nonbelievers. The also tend to have healthier lifestyles and exercise more. They have a positive support network that helps them better handle life's stress, and their beliefs help them make sense of their personal suffering.
The long answer is more complicated mostly because the researchers can't really figure out how religious involvement boosts health. But they do know that prayer, church attendance, abiding faith, and even singing in the church choir all seem to positively affect blood pressure, heart, and coping skills, according to Dale Matthews, a medical doctor and author of "God for the 21st Century," an excerpt of which has been published on BeliefNet. He says, "The medical effects of faith are a matter not just of faith but also of science." He insists scientific studies demonstrate there is medical value in religious commitment. Prayer, worship attendance, and being part of a community of faith can help prevent and treat mental disorders, heart disease, cancer, and addictions. They can also prolong survival and enhance recovery.
The short answer is that religious people tend to drink and smoke less and are less obese than nonbelievers. The also tend to have healthier lifestyles and exercise more. They have a positive support network that helps them better handle life's stress, and their beliefs help them make sense of their personal suffering.
Matthews says that the bond between religion and medicine is actually an ancient one. "Since the dawn of recorded history, these twin traditions of healing have been partners in the care of the sick, plowing together the holy ground of healing," he says. "In my office, I encourage everyone to exercise regularly, eat properly, stop smoking and excessive alcohol use, take medicines correctly, and even wear seatbelts. Should I tell them to pray, read Scripture, attend worship, or work at a soup kitchen? My answer is yes!"
Of course, being religious does not guarantee good health. Most of us will get sick during our lifetimes. And it's a sure thing that we will all die no matter what our religious beliefs or practices. Matthews he is quick to point out that physicians and clergy each have their own unique role in caring for the sick. One should not supplant the other. "We need prayer and Prozac, clergy and clinicians, faith and medicine."
--Cathryn Conroy
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Soledad
that is really good joy Im going to print it out, many of my friends and coworkers often have questions and this is a great way to explain how the JWs "work" in simple terms. Once again thanks.
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Looking for a "manton"
by Soledad in.
i would like to buy a manton for my mother (spanish style shawl) if anyone knows of a website where i can purchase one or if anyone is from nyc and can tell me of a store that sells them let me know it's much appreciated.
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Soledad
OOOOOOOOO soooo pretty thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
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Looking for a "manton"
by Soledad in.
i would like to buy a manton for my mother (spanish style shawl) if anyone knows of a website where i can purchase one or if anyone is from nyc and can tell me of a store that sells them let me know it's much appreciated.
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Soledad
I would like to buy a manton for my mother (spanish style shawl) if anyone knows of a website where I can purchase one or if anyone is from NYC and can tell me of a store that sells them let me know it's much appreciated.
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Reflections (I must be tired or shumpthink)
by Brummie inlast week i visited brummie land and it gave me a lot to think about, in particular my jw grandmother and here is why.
she was born in 1914 and was of the generation that was waiting for the new system to usher in paradise....she waited and waited .
she would have been around when all the bible students were waiting for 1925 to usher in the new system.
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Soledad
that is so sad. It makes me think of my mom. she's close to 70 now, she became a JW in 1971. When I think of her life I feel the same as you. She just waits. Having a non-believing husband puts her in the outcast category, so none of the JWs look after her, just me. She knows of all the Watchtower scandals, but her standard reply is "wait on Jehovah." I often feel like asking her "what are you waiting for? Live your life!" But I guess at this point she feels it's useless to even attempt to do or try something different. So I just smile at her and continue to show her love and support, something I know she'll never get from anyone else.