You might as well bang your head on a brick wall.
The majority of the rhetoric on that other site is along the lines of:
- the elders are not the police
- even the courts need two witnesses
- the parents should be disfellowshipped (or more) for not reporting and leaving their kids with others... "they should serve time for neglect and pay a stiff fine as well. I'm so disgusted." or "Why is the organisation held guiltier (more responsible) than the parents in such cases?"
- people are stupid for not reporting
- this is a subject being manipulated by apostates
etc... etc... etc...