well i finally made a decision.
i went to the local jw church and told them that if they didn't communicate with thier "hierarchy" and get jon's father to stop spending every night in his car on the street outside of my house that i was going to file suit, first against him, then against the crazy organization that seems to sanction his actions.
that man has been outside of my house every damn night and i finally figured out that since the local cops couldn't seem to do anything about it i would.. the other night i sat out on my front porch and waited for him to park his car across the street.
Kevin,
I know your very frustrated and hopefully this won't happen anymore.
Please don't ever point the gun towards him if he comes back.
I've seen people arrested for doing nothing more than just that.
Check and see what the laws are in your area.
Don't let this nut ruin your life.
Ranchette
hi y'all from chimpgirl in the uk.
have been posting on support board for exjws for a year or so now and someone there pointed me in your direction.
glad i found ya!.
Welcome to the board Chimpgirl!
I'm glad you "spilled your guts."
We all do it from time to time and it's wonderful to have a place like this where we can get so many viewpoints.
Hope you like it here.
Ranchette
ok, have had enough to drink tonight so i will toss these two questions out.
will discuss this a bit more tomorrow.. 1. how many of you had sex outside of your marriage after leaving the witnesses?
provide whatever details about how and why that you're comfortable with.. 2. funny question: had a friend write me today that probably more jws per capita enjoyed oral sex the night they read it was a "conscience matter" than any other group in the us.
Jan,
Thanks for clairifying.
Xena ,
thanks for the reply.
Everyone including Seeker 4,
I just wanted to say thank you for understanding where I'm coming from.I was surprised that such an emotional issue has been discussed so civily so far.
Seeker, I am also happy for your sake.
You took a chance here by confiding in us.
Thanks for taking that chance.
You do not want to be alone in your older years.
After all this time and history with your wife, for your own sake and hers do what you can to save this marriage.
I know that's what you are doing but there may be times that it's harder to do.Hang in there.
Ranchette
recently i received an e-mail from someone very close to me.
the e-mail was so vile, i stopped reading and called a good friend who is a jw.
the jw knows the writer very well.
Did yall notice that Thomas didn't like the way this thread was going so he started a couple of new demon threads of his own tonight?
Ranchette
recently i received an e-mail from someone very close to me.
the e-mail was so vile, i stopped reading and called a good friend who is a jw.
the jw knows the writer very well.
TP you said when in sincerity you post your type of thread on this forum, you can expect a lot of garbage that you have to overlook
We have all sincerely answered this persons questions I see no garbage here except for the fact that you love being superstitious and jumping to the demons conclusion instead of being calm and looking into mental and physical causes first.
There nothing wrong with you offering your so called demon knowledge to this person but your rudeness when referring to the rest of us is inexcusable!!
Puffs,
If you will click on the paper icon in Thomas Pools profile you will see threads started by him and see he has quite an obsession with demons.
I don't expect everyone to agree that demons don't exist but I believe these other causes should be explored first.
Ranchette
recently i received an e-mail from someone very close to me.
the e-mail was so vile, i stopped reading and called a good friend who is a jw.
the jw knows the writer very well.
I'm with Nathan on this.
This person is mentaly and emotionally unstable.They need therapy and medication.
If you were close to this person in the past you already know if they are evil or not.
But mental illness can make a person say and do evil things to themselves or others.
Keep the letter just in case you need it as evidence at some point.
If you know any family related to this person I would consider sending a copy to them and ask them to get this person some help.
It's not demons so you don't have to be afraid of the letter.
Ranchette
my husband needs your e-mail address, please !.
lost everything a couple months ago when we got a virus.... thanks.
I'm not seeker 4 either but I looked up his email for you here on the board,
[email protected] < [email protected]>
Ranchette
well, this may be a bit of a strange post, so brace yourself.
lol!.
do you think you would enjoy living on a modern day version of gilligan's island with a few good friends?
I'm packing my bags! Where are we going?
Ranchette
http://news.excite.com/news/r/011110/07/odd-jeans-dc.
london (reuters) - women have been faking it for years thanks to the wondrous properties of the booster bra.
now men are getting in on the act with a new pair of jeans designed to maximize their "upfront" appeal.. jeans maker lee cooper says it has re-released its subtly named 1970s "packit" jeans -- redesigned to give every man the kind of eye-popping trouser frontage normally associated with mustachioed porn stars or a well-placed pair of socks.. "the bulge has become the fashion statement of the season," a spokeswoman for the company said.. "the (jeans) are designed for the ultimate in bulge enhancement...so men can put their assets on display.".
Comf,
I knew I liked you for some reason.
A woman is not a real woman without those curves.
Closer,
A photo of a handsom man modeling these jeans would be appreciated.
Ranchette
if you have an unusual baptismal/ dedication story, tell us.. best story wins a non-prize.. heres mine.. well...when i was about all of 16 years old my father was a ministerial servant and he told us one evening that his name had.
come up in connection with being made an elderman, he was very.
happy, after all he was a man who loved power and authority.. a couple of weeks later he was down in the dumps, appeared some.
Baptism story #1
When I was 13 I was head over heals in love with my 17 year old boyfriend (At least I thought it was love) anyway he told me that out he was getting baptized at the next circuit assembly. Mom had been pressuring me to take the plunge and when I found this out it seemed perfect that I should get baptized with him then we would have these wonderful special memories after we were married to reminisce on and to tell to others.
LOL, I was such a romantic.
BTW I broke up with him when I was 15. He was messing around with another girl when I was gone for a week visiting my best friend.
So now my baptism memories aren’t so warm and fuzzy as I had planned.
I found out what real love is the next year. I’ve been married to this one every since.
Story #2
At the last district assembly we attended there was a fiasco regarding the baptismal pool.
During the morning secession I noticed brothers in the pool with buckets and an assembly line on the floor.
They were draining the pool with buckets! When I looked closer there was gross stuff floating in the water!
Baptism was scheduled right before lunch and during the announcements we were informed that the baptisms would be done that evening after the assembly but the baptism talk would be done on schedule. I think they said due to poor water quality.
It was a very anti climatic talk(as usual) this time with a dead end .
We found out at lunch that a brother used the wrong kind of glue to attach the carpet that went on the steps that went into the pool and it reacted with the chemicals in the pool and disintegrated the carpet .I bet that poor guy got chewed out.
#3
Heard that the baptism talk was given at one assembly but there was no one getting baptized.
I guess they thought, “The show must go on”!!!!
DID I WIN?
Ranchette
