It's funny, I've never discussed prayer with Mulan other than what she said above about it being a form of goal setting. I suspected that she didn't pray, we basically feel the same about religion these days without having to discuss it. I never pray anymore either. My husband says a prayer at dinner for the whole family and he prays with the kids at night...I think. He has always been a more spiritual person than me. I was never good at praying as a JW and I am just like Mulan. I never even think about it. I remember as a small child we were expected to pray silently before we ate if we weren't eating together as a family. One day either my mom or dad asked me what I said when I prayed. Well, I couldn't tell them that I silently said the abc's so I just refused to talk. I had myself so upset that I didn't finish eating. It didn't make me a better prayer, I just gave me time to think up an answer if they ever asked again. Funny how those memories pop out of nowhere. I couldn't have been more than six or seven.
Anyway, I agree with Mulan about the cancer prayers. Doesn't work. I have a friend who credits God with his current remission, but I personally think it's his incredibly positive attitude that has helped him along. He has a strong faith in God but he also puts on a smile and has a positive thing to say no matter how he feels.
Princess