Robert,
In any endeavor in life, whether buying a car or finding a
spiritual path, one needs to look at all sides. For a religion or church, you
need to hear from members and former members.
If you were buying a used car, wouldn’t you want to hear if
there were a high rate of dissatisfied customers? Why are they dissatisfied? Would
you only listen to the car salesman and their brochures?
I would definitely balance what you are reading on the
official website with: jwfacts.com
For the record, the Jehovah’s Witness religion does teach
that it is the one and only restoration of first century Christianity. In fact,
the current teaching is that in the year 1919, Christ chose the leaders
(the Governing Body, who lead Jehovah’s Witnesses) as “the faithful and discreet
slave”, the sole channel God is using to communicate with mankind. This is the core JW teaching around which
everything else revolves. Their literature says: “Our spiritual health and our relationship with
God depend on this channel."
Do you believe that your relationship with God depends on recognizing
seven men in New York as “the faithful and discreet slave?” Do you believe that
Jesus appointed the governing body in 1919 as God’s sole channel? If you are a
JW and say no, then you are subsequently expelled and shunned. You are labeled
an “apostate”.
Your friend’s mother took a blood transfusion and was
excommunicated and shunned. By your own admission, the family was torn apart. This
is par for the course. It has been estimated that 50000 people have died
because the JW leadership not only bans blood transfusions, it enforces this
ban with expulsion and shunning. Some elders are part of Hospital Liaison Committees
who are there to help ensure JWs comply when they are in the hospital. BTW…blood
transfusions and donating blood are banned, but blood fractions are allowed as of 2000.
Tens of thousands of people a year are disfellowshipped and
subsequently shunned by their friends and family. This has resulted in
countless suicides. The pain is very real, especially since JWs are taught only
to make friends with other JWs. Overnight, a person can lose their whole
support system and social network.
What can you be disfellowshipped for? Celebrating any
holiday, like Christmas or a birthday. Not agreeing with Watchtower teachings (like
Jesus invisible presence began in 1914, the ban on blood transfusion, ect…),
associating with a disfellowshiped person….and countless other rules. A JW can be taken into the 'back room' of the Kingdom Hall and interrogated by a “judicial committee”, a panel of
3 elders who act as judge, jury, and executioner. No recordings are allowed. No
observers are allowed. There are no defense or character witnesses.
The reason for this forum is because of this pain and
because folks within the organization cannot speak freely or question anything…not
without consequences. Some here do not believe in the religion, but still
attend and go door to door, because if they choose to do otherwise, they will
lose their family.
A recent Pew poll found that two thirds of those who were
raised as a JW no longer were. That is a lot of dissatisfied customers! In the
Pew poll of religions, JWs come in dead last when it comes to a retention rate,
in higher education, and in income.
The official website is geared toward outsiders. It is
worded in such a way to appear reasonable. However, a little digging can reveal how deceptive the official website is.
Did not Jesus warn to beware of false prophets who come as wolves
in sheep’s clothing? Did he not say, “by their fruits you will know them”?
JWs set another record on setting of dates when it comes to
when Armageddon would happen. To name a few: 1914, 1925, 1975. In 1918, they
taught, “Millions now living will never die!” Until 1995, they said it was the
Creator’s promise that the generation that saw 1914 would not pass away—now it
is taught that the generation is two overlapping groups (one that sees 1914,
the other that sees the End).
In comparison to all this, whether God is one person or
three distinct persons with one divine essence seems a non-issue. There are
other churches who espouse Arianism. Most churches, people are allowed to be
guided by their own conscience and reading of Scripture as to what they
personally believe. Even those with an official Trinitarian creed, most would
not expel or shun an individual for having another view.