ClassAvenger,
Welcome to the board.
You should know that those who post on this disscussion board are mostly ex-JW's. You will find very few true believers in the Watchtower here. Don't be afraid of offending anyone by the types of questions you are asking, because most of them have already left the Watchtower Society or are in the process of leaving.
Most here will also agree that the JW's are a Mind Control Cult. The reasons for all the rules is spelled "CONTROL". The Watchtower Society isolates their members for better control and brainwahing. Most loyal JW's read ONLY publications printed by the Watchtower Society. When they "do research" they use only WT publications. When they have parties only "members in good standing" are invited. All others are considered "worldly" and MUST be excluded.
This isolation is one of the marks of a "cult".
Here are some links for you that will give you some information about Jehovah's Witnesses and may answer some of your personal questions about the cult.
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES: A CRITICAL ANALYSIS
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Parthenon/7831/
Shaun's Research on the Jehovah's Witnesses
(Site Contains Photo Documentation )
http://www.jwfiles.com/index.htm
My home page - Has lots of links to valuable information
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Troy/5385/Links1.html
NewLight2