maybe it depends on how many years you were involved in it, like: from birth? all of your adult life? or just a few years?
Are your entire family, or most of it, still JW's?
Did you have any social life outside of the JW's while you were one?
How involved were you............really? Were you an elder, MS, pioneer, etc.
Are you disfellowshipped or just faded away? Were you hurt by them, other than being lied to about it all?
My husband is so much past it all. His parents are dead, his brother died too young, but was an ex JW, and the other brother won't speak to us. The rest of our family are all out, except for my mother, who doesn't shun us or give us a bad time about not being there anymore.
We have lots of friends and a busy family life, so it's easy to just forget it all.
All those things factor in.