AllTimeJeff,
I admire Ray just as must as anyone here but I believe he would have wanted us to speak the truth. You said, "Why would a man in his 50's resign his leadership position (though not leave the religion)? It was over principle. It was over what was right."
In COC Ray wrote, " That afternoon Chairman Schroeder brought the Governing Body's decision to me. Evidently those seeking disfellowshiping had not attained a two-thirds majority, for he simply informed me that I was being asked to resign from the Body and also as a member of the headquarters staff...."
Next paragraph, "I wrote out my resignation..." COC, page 332
Ray resigned because he was asked to resign.
Ray continued to attend meetings after he left Bethel. The elders in his congregation even considered appointing him elder.
I believe we should be just as honest about things as we ask the JWs to be.