Outnfree,
I just stopped attending meetings 5 months ago. After reading this board, Freeminds, and Crisis of Conscience, I have come to the EXACT same conclusion you did. (Great minds think alike? LOL) You worded it very well.
I have opened my eyes to see that there are truly many very kind people of other denominations or even are independent, and yet have a strong faith in Jesus Christ. The details may differ, but the Bible basics are the same.
It reminded me of an old WT study article about Jesus' illustration of the dragnet. The churches have been used to expose people to the Bible, and then suitable fish are brought in to the Kingdom, whereas the unsuitable ones are discarded.
So, many religions which use the Bible do actually attract right-hearted people to the good news about Jesus Christ. As to who is a candidate for salvation and who is not, I shall leave that up to Jesus. I will just try to display the faith necessary to win his smile of approval.
Gopher