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  i am being called an apostate by some at the kingdumhell ,what should i do

  by looloo in

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  when i bump into the people who are calling me that name i would like to say something about what apostate actually means but im not very articulate (you may have noticed) one lady has said she will be polite to me but nothing else , im not even an ex dub just an ex study so do i actually qualify for that title in the "land of makebelieve"?

  i know that jws think they invented the word apostate !

  the more sarcastic ,the better ?

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  thanks everyone , i have laughed so much reading these replys i have wrote them down for future reference , the odd thing about all this is the people who i have heard are saying these things about me are the family of the disfellowshipped guy that abused my child and other children , they all liked me until i reported him to the police despite knowing i had been on "wicked" websites , so it seems to be a case of sour grapes to me and perhaps they dont think there is anything wrong with abusing children seing as they are supporting him but being nasty to me , weirdos !!!!!!
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  i am being called an apostate by some at the kingdumhell ,what should i do

  by looloo in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when i bump into the people who are calling me that name i would like to say something about what apostate actually means but im not very articulate (you may have noticed) one lady has said she will be polite to me but nothing else , im not even an ex dub just an ex study so do i actually qualify for that title in the "land of makebelieve"?

  i know that jws think they invented the word apostate !

  the more sarcastic ,the better ?

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  looloo

  thanks everyone , good ideas , was jesus considered apostate then? is the word used in the bible ?
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  i once invited a jw to a babygroup held in a church hall and she loved it

  by looloo in

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  2. scandals

  but she never came again , while she was there she told me she would invite others from jw land (i have afeeling that didnt go down too well ) i know she knew it was "wrong "to be there but i said "do you really believe this place is evil ,its just a nice place full of children playing with toys " she said "i know" what would have ben said to her about it , if it got back to the elders .

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  but she never came again , while she was there she told me she would invite others from jw land (i have afeeling that didnt go down too well ) i know she knew it was "wrong "to be there but i said "do you really believe this place is evil ,its just a nice place full of children playing with toys " she said "i know" what would have ben said to her about it , if it got back to the elders .
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  i am being called an apostate by some at the kingdumhell ,what should i do

  by looloo in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when i bump into the people who are calling me that name i would like to say something about what apostate actually means but im not very articulate (you may have noticed) one lady has said she will be polite to me but nothing else , im not even an ex dub just an ex study so do i actually qualify for that title in the "land of makebelieve"?

  i know that jws think they invented the word apostate !

  the more sarcastic ,the better ?

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  looloo

  when i bump into the people who are calling me that name i would like to say something about what apostate actually means but im not very articulate (you may have noticed) one lady has said she will be polite to me but nothing else , im not even an ex dub just an ex study so do i actually qualify for that title in the "land of makebelieve"? i know that jws think they invented the word apostate ! can anyone think of anything i could say ? the more sarcastic ,the better ?
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  Romantic Notions of returning to.......

  by nomoreguilt in

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  the organization.

  i have observed in a number of threads some of the members here have expressed the need to return to the org.

  or to become active again.

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  looloo

  no way !!!!
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  Romantic Notions of returning to.......

  by nomoreguilt in

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  the organization.

  i have observed in a number of threads some of the members here have expressed the need to return to the org.

  or to become active again.

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  looloo

  no way !!!!
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  i wrote a letter to the jw wife of the man that abused my child,

  by looloo in

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  2. child-abuse

  she is standing by him!

  she does not believe he did abuse my child , even though he is serving a prison term for abusing other children(my childs allegations were to difficult to proove , so the cps dropped the charges despite believing her allegations ) i do not understand why she would believe him , when the reason she is with him is because as a child she played with his daughters and eventually he made a move on her .

  before her he had abused other friends of his daughters (the elders never reported it to the police )his 1 st wife divorced him , then he married her and she became my friend , which is how he got to know my child .

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  she is standing by him! she does not believe he did abuse my child , even though he is serving a prison term for abusing other children(my childs allegations were to difficult to proove , so the cps dropped the charges despite believing her allegations ) i do not understand why she would believe him , when the reason she is with him is because as a child she played with his daughters and eventually he made a move on her . before her he had abused other friends of his daughters (the elders never reported it to the police )his 1 st wife divorced him , then he married her and she became my friend , which is how he got to know my child . i was very nice in my letter (under the circumstances )i asked her if she ever finds out the truth let my child know that she no longer thinks she is a wicked liar .and i told her a few facts that should have left her with no doubts about whether it happened . i have had no reply at all , if she went to the elders and asked them what to do about my letter ,which would have affected the most hard hearted person, would they tell her to ignore it ? im so pissed of , cant she imagine what it is like to have your close friends husband horribly abuse your child ,mentally and sexually , then to not be believed by your friend , get no justice , get called apostate liars by perps family and then be ignored when you ask for some kind of closure , she is a kind hearted , naive person , could it be her controlling manipulative husband (or his lawyer~) influencing her or the elders ?i would appreciate any ideas .
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  what are the baptism questions before baptism and what do you say?

  by looloo in

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  2. experiences

  what are the questions elders ask you before baptism ?

  and what do you have to say at baptism ?

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  what are the questions elders ask you before baptism ? and what do you have to say at baptism ?
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  What Injustices Did You Deal With From Congregation Elders ?

  by flipper in

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  first of all i want to say at the outset , that this thread is only about elders who committed injustices.

  i realize there are many ex-elders on the board here , and as a disclaimer i want to say this information is not meant to offend any of you who served in that capacity .

  i think most all of you had pure , sincere motives in serving the congregations .

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  hi there lflipper, what awful experiances you had , while all those things were going on did it make you question if it was the truth or did you see it as imperfect man ? my experiances were 1 an elder told a disfellowshipped guy thaatwas returning to meetings to not bother coming back till he "got over" me (we had been having an affair but i returned to meetings and encouraged him to do the same as i couldnt cope with the guilt) a few years later the elder told me he had feelings for me for years , i was really shocked as he was old enough to be my dad ! within a year i had cut my ties with jws and got back with the disfellowshipped guy , we have been married a few years now and have a family (the elder had said to him once , get over her because you will never be with her,and can never marry her ) i dont think the holy spirit was guiding him with his advice ,was it ?2 this same elder told a friend to put up and shut up when her husband knocked her about , how christ like ! 3 when i approached an elder about our approaching court case (my child was abused by an ex min servant that the elders had never reported when they were made aware he had abused kids in the cong years earlier) he said to me i dont know what you are talking about and dont want to know and walked off !! how christ like again!!! i personally found some elders quite gossipy and considering i was only a study i was told too much info about members of the cong .
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  JW policy on Girl Guides and Scouts?

  by HB in

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  2. beliefs

  i have come to this forum on the recommendation of an ex jehovah's witness who has been very helpful.

  although he has given me some useful information, he suggested i post my question on here too to see what others have to say.

  being new, i am not sure if i have chosen the right topic heading but if not forgive me!.

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  looloo

  hb they made me take out my daughter from rainbows , and she loved it there , i was only a study i have sent you a message