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  Has anyone successfully faded without moving out of the territory?

  by NiceDream in

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  so far i've managed to avoid speaking to the elders who drop by.

  just wondering if they'll eventually give up in a couple years.

  anyone have experience with this?.

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  eyeslice

  I still live in the same house and have all but faded from view. Being a former elder and very much at the centre of the congregation, I did have quite a bit of attention at first, including a visit from the district overseer. However, that soons stops.

  My wife is still a regular attender but I get virtually no attention from the local elders. The only time I get a visit is after the memorial and when I point out that they only reason they visit is because they have been instructed to by the society to follow up on memorial attenders, they get slight embarrassed.

  I agree, if you don't want trouble, then you need to hold your tongue. Sounding off about the society, doctrines, etc, is unlikely to get you anywhere.

  I used to fear getting disfellowshipped because that would mean having absolutely no contact with people that I had counted my friends for years. But I am less bothered now, I would not feel any loss.
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  question for those with husbands/wives in the borg

  by Evidently Apostate in

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  how do you respond when they question your enlightenment?

  do you find yourself holding back explaining specific doctrinal flaws or let it fly both barrels?

  i know we want our loved one to see things for what they are but even a tactfull response will cause the borg teachings to take over and everything becomes an absolute with my wife.

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  eyeslice

  My wife is still very active. But, fortunately, having said that it hasn't affect our relationship.

  I don't know what it is but she very rarely tells me what has happened at the meetings and has never encouraged me to go back. She has a brother still 'in' and many in the congregation have been her friends since childhood. I don't push her about the the problems in the organisation but I do on occasions raised seriously issues with her such as problems with blood doctrine, will God destroy 7 billion people at Armagedon.

  Eyeslice
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  LETTER TO ELDERS CONCERNING THE NEW ELDERS BOOK.

  by iknowall558 in

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  eyeslice

  How long will it be before the new 'secret' elders book is available on the internet? Wikileaks are sure to be able to get a copy.
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  I too am marking 7 years out of the Watchtower

  by AK - Jeff in

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  just about this time 7 years ago.. no back-slapping please.. just happy to be out - out of the watchtower - out of christianity and it's similar faults - out of religion entirely.

  what freedom!.

  jeff.

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  eyeslice

  It must be coming up 7 years since I attended a regular KH meeting myself now. How time flies and how it changes things.
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  Dec KM indicates extreme paranoia over booking hotels NOT on the list

  by truthseeker in

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  over the years, the society has included half a page in their annual guidelines when planning for and attending the district convention.. in particular, they have been very insistent that only hotels on the recommended lodging list be used.. .

  the language in this month's km is even more insistent than last years.. .

  here is the text in full, with the original emphasis.. .

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  eyeslice

  Interesting topic.

  Assemblies have always been a bit of an eye opener for me. There are so many rules; usually for the rank and file - as per "do I as I say not as I do".

  If you wanted to attend an assembly abroad, you were strongly discouraged from making your own travel arrangements. I can understand if you don't travel with an official party then you cannot be an official delegate. But if you you weren't bothered about the 'delegate' bit and you simply wanted to see another culture then I could never see any thing wrong with that.

  When I served in India, there were brothers and sister who had travelled for a day by train. They stayed in a cellar sleeping on a concrete floor. We visited them down there every day and took drinks and goodies for the kids - I never saw the DO, CO or Bethel reps down there though. I guess they were too busy arranging the the assembly for that, no just a minute, I was looking after the attendants, the parking, the washroom and first aid.
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  January Watchtower sets ambitious target for growth!

  by slimboyfat in

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  individual action toward increase.

  7 when we look at our task and the results thus far, the per cent increase for all nations on the average is splendid; but if we are going to see kingdom interests increase as we have never seen it before, what must we do during the year 2011?

  individually, we cannot bring in a half a publisher or a third of a publisher, but we can, as publishers of the new world, aid another creature to understand gods purposes, help him in going out in the work, grounding him well in the truth, and letting him see his privilege of being a minister of the most high to join in this great shout like that of thunder and sing praises that jehovah is king.

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  It is interesting just how focused they were on figures in thise days. My earliest recollection of going to the Kingdom Hall includes seeing the big board that they used to have at the front with all the congregation's stats (for the year I think). Does anyone else remember that. I think the in your face stats must have been phased out some time in the sixties.
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  2010 drama: historicity of Christians leaving Jerusalem between Roman wars

  by Billy the Ex-Bethelite in

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  sorry if this has already been discussed, i haven't been around here a lot and i have this question for any history buffs.. this summer's dc is a fictionalized account of first century jehovah's witnesses (gag), leaving jerusalem right after the first attack by rome and fleeing to pella.. http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/members/private/194498/1/drama-audio-only.

  other than jesus "this generation" prophecy, the bible mentions nothing directly about this.

  even john, who wrote his gospel and letters afterward, makes no hint of events in jerusalem during that era.

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  eyeslice

  What struck me was the scene where the 'faithful' head of the household comments to the effect that he has been studying the meeting attendance figures and field ministry hours, which are all up. Not sure that is historical
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  Cure/Treat Cancer with Apricot seeds

  by EndofMysteries in

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  she refused chemo and started the seeds.

  if you want his phone number send us e-mail.. steve j. was going to the bathroom 4-5 times per night.

  he was diagnosed with prostate cancer after a biopsy and is doing fine and will continue to do so.

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  A word about the China Study. The guy that wrote it grew up and a farm and grew up eating a diet of rich meat and dairy products. He subsequently became a highly respected expert in the field of nutrition and health and gave up meat and dairy products altogether.

  I personally am vegetarian, mainly because I believe that eating meating means an unsustainable planet and because I strongly disagree with the concept of factory farming of livestock. Additionally, I am increasingly convinced that vegetarianism is the biggest single life style change that we can make to improve our health.
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  Congregation Elders got a letter from headquarters on "Sexting". I guess this is the latest trend causing problems.

  by miseryloveselders in

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  last week, my coboe, formerly known as the po, read a letter from ny giving directions on how to handle cases of "sexting" in the congregation.

  i've vaguely heard of sexting in news articles.

  i'm thinking though, the branch isn't going to send out a letter unless there's a trend.

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  eyeslice

  Robert7

  I think you have it right. A lot of JCs deal with young people who are exactly that young, inexperienced and doing what comes naturally.
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  Cure/Treat Cancer with Apricot seeds

  by EndofMysteries in

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  she refused chemo and started the seeds.

  if you want his phone number send us e-mail.. steve j. was going to the bathroom 4-5 times per night.

  he was diagnosed with prostate cancer after a biopsy and is doing fine and will continue to do so.

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  eyeslice

  I agree this does sound too scientific to me. However, I would say don't discount diet and the effects it has on health and cancer. From what I have read and heard changing the diet of people with prostate cancer can have amazing effects. I would recommend a couple of really good (i.e. not quackery) books:

  Anticancer: A New Way of Life - by David Servan-Schreiber, M.D., Ph.D

  The China Study - T. Colin Campbell (a bit of an academic read but an excellent book)

  good health to you all

  Eyeslice