Posts by flipper

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Specific Comments By R&F About May Broadcast

by freemindfade in

i know there are many posts discussing the may money requesting televangalism...er... broadcast i mean!

but i wanted to start one where anyone can put what they have heard any non-exjw, non-apostate witnesses say good or bad about the broadcast.

i don't see how it can't rattle followers... but then again i might be surprised how they can twist things (2+2=5).

flipper

DRIVING FORCE- I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through these stressful times with your wife. Please know that you are not alone. We care. If you ever need a friend or want to talk- please PM me, I'd be glad to chat with you. Hang in there buddy, Peace out, Mr. Flipper

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

BROTHER JERAMY- You aren't being judged by anybody with any kind of power or a judicial committee. Apparently the only comparisons you can make are equated with being within the Jehovah's Witness universe. But if some of us here see manipulation of facts concerning the Jehovah's Witnesses or WT Society trying to say this organization has ANY semblance of Christianity- we WILL call you or anybody else out on that fact. If you do research regarding the no blood transfusion doctrines or the child abuse policies which are criminally horrid- you will see that the WT Society and Jehovah's Witnesses ARE indeed a criminal organization. Whether you care to admit to it or not is irrelevant. You will have to deal with the fact that you continue to support a criminal organization.

But if you keep insulting newer members such as Lost His Mind on here- you WILL be called out on it by several of us as we care about people. And don't try to make excuses for yourself- she herself called you an A-hole. If you don't get that message coming from multiple people then you are really deluding yourself and you will not evolve as a human beyond a certain point that you're at. Honesty is a bitch, but this is my opinion

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John Denver hates JW's

by problemaddict 2 in

jw
friends

i remember this making the rounds and people swearing by it.

knew someone at the concern and whatnot.

how does this crap come up?.

flipper

What CTRWTF said. You DO know John Denver's dead right ? LOL. Unless he's
"hating " JW's from the great beyond in the afterlife

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Any one out there wanting to get together?????

by ellaella in

new to this site.

was wondering in southwest area of us is there any one that would know of way to get-to-gether w/ ones possibly i knew all in growing up lets say in callifornia or nevada from the 1970s to present?

i would love to see if any one else was able to leave because of all that was found out about this organization.

flipper

Welcome! In July every year we have an "Apostafest" at Lake Tahoe - most camp out but some stay in motels.

Lots of people from the west, southwest, also some from Chicago, Indiana, other points east. It is a really nice time for 2 or 3 days.

PM for more info, also Flipper has a threat going about it. Mrs. Flipper

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

Hey, lost his mind, you stated a good thread here. There is a thread on the front page "Heartbreaking talk with my Parents", bumped up after 2 years. This same story has been posted on this forum many times by many people. This is why so many JW's don't leave.

The denial of JW's is incredibly strong - they will insist to the public that there's no shunning, child abuse, male domination, etc. (Or that it's only a minor problem).

To Brother Jeramy - I welcome you posting here. But I certainly can not agree with you about the JWs. I know too much about them. I'd be willing to bet you are in so you don't lose loved ones.

You won't get much agreement on this board as far as giving the JW mindset equal consideration. Most here have had the blinders ripped off and are painfully aware of how harmful the religion is. But your posting is valuable, to illustrate such a different mindset.

I was done with religion by my teens and couldn't have cared less about any of them until I learned about the watchtower when I met Flipper. Now I will go out of my way to help someone get out with their health and sanity intact, and I'm not a particularly energetic person. I cant let slide excuses made for the JW's, even to be polite.

Also, welcome to Rebelfighter, hope you post more.

Mrs. Flipper

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

BROTHER JERAMY- Your statement, " I encouraged her to LOOK INTO HER OWN ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOR , rather than just her husband's , as contributing factors to the problems......... " I rest my case. You made my point. She's the " source of his problems " IS what you're insinuating.

Look - By addressing this as HER needing to adjust HER attitude - it helps YOU to justify that the Jehovah's Witnesses beliefs couldn't POSSIBLY be any of the problem between her and her husband. I helps YOU to feel more secure within your JW mentality that " nope - the JW cult can't be wrong - it's the unbelieving lady's misunderstanding of her husband's beliefs that is wrong. "

Which is the SAME patriarchal JW elder attitude of " man first, woman second" viewpoints that are taken by JW elders in telling JW women to STAY with an abusive JW husband and take physical or emotional abuse for years on end and then elders telling JW women " maybe YOU need to make changes sister and be more in subjection to your husband ! "

I saw this BS attitude for 44 years inside the criminal organization Jehovah's Witnesses elders and WT Society making women feel like lesser citizens and I won't tolerate calling you out that to make yourself comfortable in your twisted JW belief system - you are doing the same thing to this poster in a more subtle fashion . My older JW sister stayed with an abusive JW husband for 20 years and the elders told her " it was her fault, what was SHE doing to make him abusive. She wasn't submissive enough. " ?? That's called gaslighting making someone feel they are in the wrong when in fact they are not.

This poster doesn't need to make any changes other than not listening to your advice to make her feel unnecessary " guilt "

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

BROTHER JERAMY- My wife was and is correct in her assessment of the way you reason on things. You claim you are being " respectful " to this newer poster - however - you are casting her in a bad light by stating " perhaps you may wish to consider the possibility that your husband ( with his pro-JW stance - isn't the ONLY source of the problems you're experiencing. " Translation : She may be the source of his problems - THAT is what you're insinuating. You use double speak and innuendo's that cult mind controlled people use from any mind control cult.

At least I'm honest and call you out on your crap. This is a new board member who deserves support and all you are doing is trying to make her feel " guilty " for how she is feeling. She has no need to feel " guilty " about anything. Once again - an old trick used by people controlled by mind control cults. Peace out, Mr. Flipper

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

To our new poster "Lost his mind" - welcome from Mrs. Flipper. We would love to see you at Tahoe.

We get apologists here occasionally trying to defend the watchtower - I'd like to see your thread not get derailed by it. But it is interesting to see that mentality at work.

Myself, I was never a JW, and I see some of this stuff from a different perspective. Brother J. seemed to be talking to you the way a lot of JW men talk to women. And where the majority of posters here will offer support, the apologists are usually trying to convince everyone, including themselves, to stick to the old cult beliefs.

Yeah, I guess I get wound up about that stuff. Anyway, welcome - wish you better times ahead. PM if you'd like to talk. Mrs. Flip

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

LOST HIS MIND- Thanks for the further information regarding your husband. It sounds as if he looks to his sister and brother in law as parents so this listening to their every direction may have deeper ties inside him than only the JW cult- which is bad enough. He may have insecurities tied to listening to them as his replacement parents. I feel for you- you definitely have your hands full. But ultimately the decision is up to you what you end up doing. We are here as a support to you. Take care, Peace out, Mr. Flipper

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Well, I asked a question and his answer blew me away

by Lost his mind in

first time, been lurking for years, but i asked my husband who has been studying for 20 plus years if he has ever questioned those that were "teaching" him.

blew my mind.

i ask him all the questions that you have asked yourself, but he will not ask them.

flipper

BROTHER JERAMY- Telling a new board member who has experienced difficulties from her studying JW husband and fanatic JW relatives that if she leaves she is, " very controlling " - is VERY controlling of you to tell her this. It's her own damned personal life and who the hell do you think YOU are to tell her to leave or NOT to leave just because you feel she should not challenge her husbands beliefs or her JW relatives beliefs ? It's really none of your damned business or place to be telling this newer board member what to do or HOW she should feel. You really ARE coming off like the WT cult leaders who we often criticize here