you have a right to be upset. they should have the hurt consciences, not you sweetie.
bigdreaux
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Don't think i should have sent the text i just did ....
by dobbie inthink i just did something really stupid.
i have had a bad couple of days.
i was in the playground yesterday and had my jw bil stood right in front of me ignoring me totally (i'm d'ad) but talking to my hubby, who said nothing to him (her my eifes here too or something would have been nice) so i felt like total dogs poo and we both ended up in tears over it all when i got home.
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The Whining, Nagging Watchtower
by metatron inafter reading thru the oct '07 watchtower's, i got an impression of what the new "kool-aid".
watchtower may be like:.
whining and nagging .
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bigdreaux
They remind of what you shouldn't lick or what sort of sex you shouldn't have.
seriously, no offense, did you mean like or lick? because these two words, make that sentence mean 2 completly different things. just wondering.
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who's fault is it?
by bigdreaux inwhen it comes to the society, are they to blame for the control they use upon the members, or is it the peoples fault?
should we blame the society for tricking people?
or is it the people that let themselves be tricked?
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bigdreaux
Active witnesses are greedy and selfish. Most aren't interested in serving God, they are interested in living forever. The society capitalizes on that greed and extorts time and money from them. If the GB announced tomorrow that a new light revealed there was no heavenly hope or resurrection, but that Jehovah still wanted people to serve him and preach, the organization would immediately collapse.
very good point, that's how i feel also. witnesses act like it's love of god, it's not, it's all about the pay out.
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who's fault is it?
by bigdreaux inwhen it comes to the society, are they to blame for the control they use upon the members, or is it the peoples fault?
should we blame the society for tricking people?
or is it the people that let themselves be tricked?
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bigdreaux
when it comes to the society, are they to blame for the control they use upon the members, or is it the peoples fault?
should we blame the society for tricking people? or is it the people that let themselves be tricked? this doesn't count if you were born into the borg. you never had the choice to begin with and all you can do is try and escape.
but, who do you feel is MOST at fault here? remember, without the members, the org. is powerless to do anything.
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Which is your favourite anti-JW web site?
by IT Support inthere a loads of anti-jw sites out there.. if you had to choose just one as being the best (apart from jwd, of course!
), which one would you pick?
perhaps which was most helpful when you were leaving?
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Would You Be Disturbed If A Casino Opened Up In Your Area???
by minimus inin massachusetts, the governor unveiled a casino proposal yesterday.
some are very much for it: others are solidly against it.. would you be against having a casino in your state?
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bigdreaux
no, as long as it is tastefully done, and traffic is considered into the equation. i'm not much of a gambler, but, i think people have a right to gamble if they wish. what business is it of ours?
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Censorship, when to apply it?
by Blueblades inkathy griffin won an emmy award for her reality show " my life on the d list.
" in her speech, griffin said that a lot of people come up here and thank jesus for this award.
i want you to know that no one had less to do with this award than jesus.. she went on to hold up her emmy, make an off-color remark about christ and proclaim,"this award is my god now!".
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bigdreaux
john doe, that picture was taken here. lol
as for this comment:
never...censorship is never acceptable to me..I would rather read, see, or hear something that was offensive to me than to know that someone wasn't able to express themselves in a way that was right and comfortable for them.
even if it's child pornography? or the advocation of such. there are websites that try to do this. should they be protected?
anyone that knows me, knows i hate censhorship. it drives me nuts. but, it is needed in SOME cases. true, it's hard to know where to draw the line, but, some things are just obvious.
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Meet with elders because "I have left Jehovah"
by Rayvin inmy husband got a call on his cell phone.
an elder from the local kh told him he would like to get with both of us.
he said he was just getting in touch with the local people in his cong.
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bigdreaux
My brother thinks we should call back and tell the elder " We haven't left Jehovah. We feel that Jehovah left the fake, corrupt and false religion taught in the cong. and we left WITH him/her. And we would appreciate it if you didn't call us back again."
if your ready to make an exit, this is a perfect statement. turn the tables on them, control the conversation, keep them off-balance. don't allow them to dance around your questions, give it to them with both barrels.
if your not ready to leave, for whatever reason, act like you are depressed and need some spiritual upbuilding. then after a bit, fade again.
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Do You Still Want To Know The Truth
by The-Borg insomething is very very wrong with our world.
or am i imagining it and things really aren't that bad?.
personally i think there are issues being played out about which we know nothing, we can only guess at ( i don't think it's the issue of universal sovereignty).
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bigdreaux
clam, i couldn't have put it better.
the way i see it, we need to try to fix our problems on our own and stop looking for unproven divine guidance. if there is some being known as god or whatever, i think he would or will let us know what's up when the time is right. in the meantime, love one another, and be a good person. let's try to make a difference together.
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Meet with elders because "I have left Jehovah"
by Rayvin inmy husband got a call on his cell phone.
an elder from the local kh told him he would like to get with both of us.
he said he was just getting in touch with the local people in his cong.
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bigdreaux
hello, maybe if we can have some more background info. we can help better.