arker:
Why not just stop going with nothing said
mostly what I was going to say about why I just fade and not outright quit has already been said. Family and a few close friends are keeping a toe in the water....
I make occasional meetings but dont go in the ministry any more. I dont believe a thing the WTBT$ has to say, but will defend to their death their right to say it (twisting a quote from Voltaire). Nice thing about freedom in this country. They have the right to spout BS, we have the right to publicly refute and spotlight their BS.
My closest female friend talked to me on the phone today. She is really sincere in her efforts to "help" me get "back on track." Two decades ago, I was the one trying to help her "get back on track" back when she was about to be (and was) D/F. So she understands both sides of this. Nothing I said then changed her mind though she never forgot it. Now, she is back in "good standing" and (mostly) happily married to a fellow JW.......too bad she is so deeply entrenched in the Borg mindset. I was in that entrenched place not that many years ago, so I understand where she is coming from. She has no clue about the pedophile issue, the flip flops of the WT, etc., despite being raised as a JW (or maybe because she was raised as such). I wish I could share that with her without fear of pushing her away. I will let sleeping dogs lie and be there for her if she finds out on her own.
So I just keep up the fade. Eventually I will probably have to move away from the area and start over to completely walk away. For now, I do what I have to do.
SnakesInTheTower (of the "fading" Sheep Class)