Your boyfriend will get into serious trouble with the Witnesses if it is found out that he slept with you. He can be disfellowshipped for fornication. You also said he loves oral sex ... another activity forbidden for Witnesses. If he's found out, you may find yourself in a position where he'll choose his religion over you. In order to get back into favor with the Witnesses, he'll dump you. There's no guarantee of him marrying you either way. You and your child deserve someone who can be committed, not some half-baked, secret affair.
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I need some serious informational help from EVERYONE!
by Thedirtysecret ini am new here and i joined honestly to collect information to understand something a little better.
my boyfriend, well-now kinda boyfriend (were at a weird place) is a jehovah's witness and i am not.
he waited a little "far" into our relationship to tell me he was, which created a mess, honestly an emotional dyfunctional mess.
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What's Your Favorite Candy or "Goody"?
by minimus ini love milk chocolate raspberry, cherry, actually any fruit, candies.. i love hershey's with almonds.. i'm in a sweettooth type of mood..
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
In no particular order, they are ...
1. Gummy candies and marshmallows are the absolute BEST for me! I'll take any flavour, once it's got the gummy texture.
2. Chocolate - white or dark (both ends of the spectrum).
3. Licorice Allsorts (I really LOVE those!!!)
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What made you get baptized?
by Frequent_Fader_Miles inbasically, i was forced into it.
believe me, baptism was the last thing i wanted to do.
but i was already in my early twenties, and the rank and file were like why don't you get baptised!
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
I was 8. I remember looking out the window of my 3rd grade classroom at a big storm brewing outside. It looked like Armageddon was about to start
Your childhood innocence made me chuckle. Reminds me of how I would've reasoned at 8 years old too! Regardless, I still think 8 years old is still too young to make such a life-altering decision.
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What made you get baptized?
by Frequent_Fader_Miles inbasically, i was forced into it.
believe me, baptism was the last thing i wanted to do.
but i was already in my early twenties, and the rank and file were like why don't you get baptised!
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Basically, I was forced into it. Believe me, baptism was the LAST thing I wanted to do. But I was already in my early twenties, and the rank and file were like ... after every Assembly and Convention. Then one day my mom approached me with an exasperated "Why don't you get baptised!" So there I was, still living with my parents, jobless, frustrated ... I gave in simply to keep the peace.
What was your story?
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2008 District Convention Theme
by R.F. inokay, so it should be very soon when the theme for the 2008 convention will be made public.
what do you think the them will be?
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
"FOLLOW THE DIVINE DIRECTIVE"
"APPRECIATING NEW LIGHT"
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Coming Up October 24th!
by Outaservice ini noticed on my calendar that october 24th has been labeled 'united nations' day.. do you think it would be nice to send the society and maybe the local congregation a card thanking them for the support the organization has given to the principals of the united nations as a long time ngo?
of course we would want to prove that in the card with the proper sources of that information.. just wondering....................... outaservice.
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
I think the library card idea is a great one! Any takers?
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When Meetings Went Overtime, What Did You Do?
by minimus ini used to start looking at the clock behind me, look at my watch, look at the speaker or person handling the part and give obvious facial expressions expressing my dissatisfaction.
it was a pet peeve of mine!
a few times when i had the last part in a service meeting, i'd say, rather sternly,"this originally was a 15 minute part but because we are running out of time, we will dispense with (whatever).".
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
I used to look at my watch constantly ... after I had packed away all my books and opened the song book to the scheduled song for that night.
If it were the bookstudy, I'd just keep looking at the exit.
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What Birth Sign Were You Born Under ?
by flipper indidn't know if this has been addressed before , but it's kinda interesting.
when we were witnesses we were always told,oh!
don't look at horoscopes or read anything about your sign because it's demonized !
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Aries
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-A quick thought on birthdays.
by Awakened07 inthis thought just occurred to me:.
we all - even jehovah's witnesses - mourn our loved ones when they die.
we cry and wail, with good reason.
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
If it's really so wrong to celebrate birthdays because it's a kind of person-worship, then JWs should be consequent and stop holding funerals
And they should also stop worshipping at the altar of the Circuit Overseer too.
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No spaghetti stringed dresses at KH or FS
by White Dove inmy advice to any victim of jw's that would complain about sisters wearing these pretty dresses would be to take a pair of scissors with them to the hall and cut the strings off right in front of the complainers and ask if that is better.
go strapless!
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
I think you hit the nail right on the head as to why they're against it .... the dresses are pretty! Have you noticed how the "sisters" are dressed on the Wacktower magazine covers?