AudeSapere

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  What if a brother ask you if the big A comes, would YOU repent?

  by Iamallcool in

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  how would you answer him?

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  Repent of what? - was my first thought, too.

  I agree with OTWO.

  -Aude.
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  Can't be myself

  by StephaneLaliberte in

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  [endif]i had a diner with the neighbors... they don't know i'm a jw cause i don't tell people anymore about it.

  somehow, the topic of cults came up and one of my neighbors said that the jw require 10% of their income to go to the church.

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  Choose your battles. Your neighbor has the facts wrong. I think it's the Mormons who give 10%.

  Just state the facts as you know them and let it go. I also used to use the phrase: "I [used to] have friends who were JWs" when the subject came up. Eventually, with some people, I tell them that I used to be a JW. For most people I talk to, though, it is none of their business.

  You did good. Pick your battles and let it be.

  Good luck with your fade.

  -Aude.
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  Was Kate Bush thinking of the JWs or did she just want her teeth checked by her dentist

  by barry in

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  www.youtube.com/watch?v=qfntpbhkp0u.

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  SBF wrote: You know her friend died at a consert she did in the late seventies... after which she hardly ever played live again.

  Wow. I did not know this - only that she rarely even attends industry events.

  -Aude.
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  Should all elders be painted with the same brush?

  by Socrateswannabe in

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  an hour or two ago, i was reading a topic on this forum that welcomed new elders to jwn.

  there was some criticism aimed at the op and i understand that elders shouldn't be singled out as special.

  one poster said he/she hates all elders.

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  (Marking for later)
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  New Rooming Arrangement for some district conventions in the UK - what are they up to?

  by 88JM in

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  so i missed this letter below being read out last week - i got a look at it from the notice board this week.. from what i heard, this announcement was not received entirely positively as such, but there were apparently one or two for who this is a bit annoying.. staying at hotels for the district convention is nothing new here - many are used to staying at the same hotel/b&b/campsite every year, and get quite friendly with the owners.

  but this year, it looks like not only do we have a new location for our district assembly (glasgow - the s.e.c.c.?

  ) but we are being told what hotel to stay at, supposedly to make things cheaper.. what i can't understand is, if this is really for the benefit of people, why didn't they do this years ago?

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  Ecan6's link above was very interesting and insightful into the workings of DC's as regards to a subsidy that WTS receives from a local community.

  It's a short read but enlightening for me. [Also, the PDF of the minutes of the City Council meeting which highlight the revenue to the local businesses and the city. ($300,000 estimated return to the city - not counting the boon to the businesses at a time of year that is usually 'dead'.) - Read the PDF that is shown at the bottom of the article. You will likely be surprised as well. "Follow the money" comes to mind.]

  This paragraph made me laugh, though:

  But this year City Councilors say they want to see more outreach into the community.

  Baldwin explained that in the past the City Council would encourage and suggest that the group to partner with other organizations in the community, but wouldn’t require it. The Jehovah’s Witnesses would instead perform some other kind of service work.

  This year, she said they decided to tie the funding directly to the completion of a community service.

  Councilors gave the group three options including providing support or volunteers for a local Habitat for Humanity project, Helping Hands Mission relocation or a food or clothing drive for one of the city’s food banks or shelters. The group could suggest its own partnership, but it must be approved by the City Council.

  hehe While in the past they were happy with free labor for arena cleaning and for free landscaping services, they are now wanting JWs to be move involved in community outreach - and not the bogus door-to-door 'Life-Saving' proselytising that they may claim as charitable activity. The city wants actual, bonafid, charitable activity in exchange for the subsidy. Would really like to see an update on this...

  -Aude.
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  Stephen Lett's combover is famous

  by zound in

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  found stephen lett on the first page of google images when i googled "famous combovers' (don't ask!).

  http://memegenerator.net/instance/34747377.

  got me thinking.

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  Can someone please make the links clickable?

  Aude.
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  Gut wrenching situation

  by laverite in

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  i have a close relative who has a baby with a terminal medical condition.

  he could go at any moment or last a few years.

  but the ultimate outcome is that he will die very young.

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  I agree with you, laverite. It is as if she callously flaunted her hope to a mother in despair. Of course, her intention was to win over the mother so that she, too, could have the same [false] hope. And that 'maybe' was quite odd. Or not so much. As someone else already said, there are likely many who no longer really believe that the end is coming any time now. Or that it will take the form that we had come to believe - oh! so long ago.

  This thread reminded me of a strange conversation that I think may have been the beginning of my questionings...

  In preparing for a talk that I had, I went to the home of a woman who was probably close to 60 at the time. Something had happened in our cong and I mentioned - as all good JWs did then - that soon the new system will be here and we won't have to worry about all these terrible things that happen to us now (or something to that effect). Her response to my canned JW comment was: "Oh, Aude! You don't really still believe that, do you?"

  Stopped me dead in my thoughts. Jaw open. Speechless. LOL. Then, "Well, yeah. Of course I do."

  We rehearsed the talk and I've thought about her comment many times. She and her sister and aunt were at nearly every meeting. But she did not believe. How could that be??

  I don't remember ever talking to her about it again. Wonder where she is and what her thoughts and beliefs *really* were.

  Strange feeling, that was.

  -Aude.
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  I have a friend in a tough situation

  by YoursChelbie in

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  i have a friend who just got married by the courthouse.

  her husband and her were to have a church wedding but the very day before the wedding she tells me he begins to behave in odd ways.

  first she sees he has strange marks on his back but he cannot explain how they got there.

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  I don't understand why she would want to stay married to this man. ??

  -Aude.
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  Powerfully heart-wrenching experience by FORMER BETHLITE

  by Black Man in

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  just wanting to post an experience by a former bethelite.

  the first part was just published with the other two coming overt the next couple of weeks.

  click the link.

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  Marking for later.
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  JW family made contact....

  by LouBelle in

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  .....after 8 years of us being disfellowshipped.

  the made contact through my aunt who is still 'in' - as in she has faded but is not disfellowshipped and will pop to a meeting now and again - she does this for my grans' sake.. the contact was from my aunt and uncle (he's an elder) these were the 2 witnesses used against me in my judicial case.

  they contacted my aunt and said to forward the message onto us.

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  LouBelle wrote: ... They need to take the council of the scripture that states that the elder in the congregations have to be like fathers and husbunds to the orphands and widows, that they have to be the shelter from the sun and rain.....and have suggested that if they are so concerned about my grans' loneliness that they prepare one of their spare bedrooms for her - this will eliviate the cost of putting her in an expensive home.

  Beautiful! Put it back in their court.

  I am going thru something similar with my mother. I am not DF'd not DA'd but she told me and other non-active siblings that her family is her congregation. Now she is older and poorer (having spent her money on trips and early 'retirement') and wanting help from her kids. She leveraged my cancer treatment to get congregation support (she kept the cash). When I needed help getting to the emergency room when starting chemo, she could not help because it would make her late for a Bible Study. In my 20's hen I asked for a loan ($50 to get me thru til payday) she refused because I needed to learn how to manage my money.

  Now she wants help because she needs a new car - or something. (I didn't pay attention to the details from my siblings.) I have no money to spare her. She can look to her congregation and reflect on her own words: Manage your money better. The cong is her family. Jehovah's will comes first.

  The fact is, though, that her non-jw brother does have room for her. But I think that she doesn't want to be inconvenienced with a move.

  Anyway, good for you, LouBell and your mom. Good response. I might be inclined to make a donation of time or money to you local Senior Concerns society - to help the general aging community. In memory of your gran who died 8 years ago.

  -Aude.