First step is simple but we've created a environment where no one will take it. First there needs to be an acknowledgement that Islam itself has responsibility in these acts, that its not a religion of peace, and expecting this behavior from its adherants is no more islamaphobia than expecting witnesses to keep dying for refusing blood is jwaphobia.
Without step one not a damn thing will change. We'd rather bomb the hell out their desert shit holes day after day than just say the religion needs to take responsibility.