I'm still amazed about this story....
It dawned on me......I and my siblings were ALL abused as kids by our LOVING, JW parents. I have the black eyes in my school photos to prove it. I even had a police file after an emergency room visit - child protection came to visit me. After a few visits, we played "good family", they dropped the case. We moved, and they lost track of me. I made up stories to cover - fell, hit with ball, etc. Plus, my parents "kept me home" from school when the bruises were really bad. None of us were strapped to the bed that I'm aware of, but isn't being slammed to the ground and hit in the face with closed fists out-of-the norm? Gee, maybe I need to get help? My mind is just spinning right now - but I will write on.
I think some people who come into the JW religion came from a bad family situation. Both my parents were abused by their parents. Thier childhood led them to the WTS touting Paradise and obediance demonstrated through strict compliance with rules and subjection to authority. They could follow the instructions. My parent's abusive background and the WTS's authoritative structure, I think, gave my parents the ammunition to punch, hit with brooms, etc.
The WTS does not, nor has ever, directly touted beating your child to death. But, they do tout respect for authority, strictness, and compiance with rules. The WTS does not recognize their followers come from bad backgrounds, and need help developing parent skills. Plus, the now "born-again" follower is "perfect" JW - so why deal with his/her nasty past. It's all been fixed by baptism, right?
Here's the recipe for disaster.
Followers with bad pasts
plus Follower enters Watchtower's authoritative, rule based dogma
plus Child obediance -parents, especially fathers, are to be respected
plus No psychologists needed, follower is now a "Christian"
plus No police reporting
Equals
Abused Children
Beating your children, in the Kingdom Hall or out, is not the way to give them a "witness" of how Jehovah or Jesus would act. It certainly doesn't turn them into devoted followers.
I heard Pat Robinson speak one morning. He said (something like), "How you see God is how you will treat your family." When you see Jehovah as an authoritative, unforgiving, rule based God, you will treat your family with abuse. When you see Jehovah as forgiving, everending love, you will treat your family with perpetual grace.
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