Some further thoughts:
12. On the issue of flip-flops and the failure of witness message of doom, it maybe due to lack of understanding of the scripture at that time. Every day, new understanding is perceived. Remember 2Peter 3:16
2 Peter 3:16 makes no mention of new understanding being percieved daily. Can you provide one example, in the 4,000 year history covered by the Bible, of one patriach, prophet, priest, king or Christian that preached or teached something as truth that then had to change it later due to new 'understanding'. That's because there isn't one! And of course why would God act like that? It makes him look like a fool!
13. The issues you highlighted on more dangers are baseless as I do not see anything wrong in being neutral in times of war or refusal to salute the flag. There are scriptural basis for it e.g. Isaiah 2: 2-4; Deuteronomy 4:16
We're writing these e-mail exchange in English. Had our forebears not shown the fortitude they did, the JW's wouldn't exist and if we ever met we may well have beeing talking in German!
Witnesses enjoy the benefits of a free society yet refuse to support that society (yet it's ok to use violence to protect ones home)
13. Talking about losing friends and family members as a result of associating with witnesses, I think there is also a scriptural basis for it. Matthew 10: 32-38; Luke 12: 52-53; 14: 25-27
Look at Jeses when his many disciplies left him ( John 6:66). Did he tell those that remained to have nothing to do with them?
There in no suggestion in scripture that family members should be shunned. Not becoming unevenly yoked with unbelievers does not mean total shunning.
14. On the issue of witness viewpoint, I think it has to do with individuals. Remember how the disciples of Christ were also seeking prominence. Matthew 18: 1-4, Luke 22: 24-27. As for me, doing God's work is most important to me. I do not seek to be elder any day and I do not look forward to it.
A noble sentiment. But before you walk down any such path examine JWfacts.com carefully.
15. On the issues of excommunication, there is a scriptural basis as well. Remember 2John 8-11
See 13. above
16. I did ask the question - Who were the true Christians after the death of the last Apostle? but I did not get any convincing answer. I decided to take it that Jehovah knows best and he will always find a way to get his purpose accomplished
Not having a answer doesn't mean that the JW's are right by default...
17. Even I have challenges with the behaviour and attitude of people in general. However, I strongly believe Jehovah will use people to reach out to the ones he has chosen without necessarily rewarding all those he may have used. That is the attitude I am using to get along and I have also somehow adopted a neutral approach to avoid being hypocritical or doing eye service. In the same breath, I decided not to take responsibilities other than preaching.
Again, that doesn't mean that the JW's are right...
18. Although, you have a thorough knowledge of the organization and scriptures than I do, I just thought to respond to you on the issues you have raised. I would have loved that you and your husband never left the organization you have dedicated so much time and energy to work with. You should have seen it as a service for Jehovah and allow the scriptures to be fulfilled regarding molesters. Remember Matthew 18: 6-11, Mark 9: 42. I may not be able to turn you back to the organization because the scriptures itself made known that it is only Jehovah that can attract someone to himself John 6:44-45
Jehovah is not using this Organisation. He can't. They're damaged goods. From false dates to false beliefs (Great Crowd go to heaven - they are not on earth, Jeses is the mediator only all man, not just the 144,000) they are wrong. Remember a little leaven ferments the whole loaf. So if any teachings are false it doesn't matter hopw much is 'right', what is wrong is the issue.