Jimakazi - welcome, welcome, welcome
Can appreciate so much what you're saying - the ''so wanting'' the future, they cannot enjoy the present. Am sorry to hear that one of your parents is having to undergo surgery - must be a difficult time for you all.
You made me laugh though :-
When I was serrously injured in a motorcyle accident my mothers comment was there would have been an up side if I had been killed - I would have gotten a resurection. Did I mention "INSANE". .....You let your parents down TWICE - lol - first you DON'T die, and THEN you go and get a good job and a stable family - how selfish is THAT? LOLThe saddest thing is that my father consideres himself a failure; why? because his two sons, both happily married, with childern, no afairs, not one arrest, sucessful in business, respected in their fields, are no longer Jehovahs Witnesses. It is INSANE.