On a more serious note.. as suicide was mentioned a few posts ago.. can anyone answer this question for me.. How many people (including the JWs) say that "God will not put a heavier load on us than we can carry" I have always wondered.. if that is true, then why do people commit suicide? Don't they commit suicide because they are too burdened by their misfortunes? Once again, to me this points away from God's existence.
I believe that God does not give us more than we can handle, we may be pushed to our limits, and yes while one is suicidal they feel burdened.
I admit I felt very much burdened and thought that life was rather empty and pointless and there is not much point in going on. When you are depressed you struggle to see the positive and i've noticed that depressed people without realising it push away and refuse help.
People feel the suicide is the cure, a way to end all your pain, but it is not! Suicide is not the answer....
In a way suicide is a selfish act, can you think of the pain you would cause everyone around you? They start to blame themselves even if the person wrote a suicide note claiming that its no one's fault it still lingers as pain and guilt in everyone's hearts.
Suicide is a Mortal sin to God, and he would hate it if we took our lives....
Satan however would love it... Thats what the devil does he constantly whispers lies in our ears convincing us that suicide is the answer, all your suffering and pain will end.
I will quote the T.V series Medium "People who jump off a cliff find that once they are 3 quarters down, their problems are fixible"
*well it was along the lines of that anyways*
So its about having faith, God can help you through your adversities and healing does take a long while, heck I am still recovering from depression, it can take years, but in the end you are a stronger and better person and you gain so much wisdom from it all.
The Catholic church believes in "purgatory" no sinful being can enter heaven, we also go through suffering on earth and what is not finished on earth gets finished off in Purgatory before you enter heaven. So enduring through suffering goes well when it comes to the time of judgement.
At the time of adversity the depressed person would feel pinned down by adversity and would want to give up.... a way to decribe depression would be to be in an endless fog, pressed down by a huge weight, in a huge maze, falling in a never ending hole etc.
But you will find your light at the end of the tunnel, we all have our burdens to bare.
A life without burdens is no ordinary life.
In peace,
Evanescence