Yes enforced shunning is a form of abuse. The interesting thing is the shunned are hurt just as badly as the shunners. When you force an otherwise loveing person to do something that's unloving you also injure yourself in the process. That's why we see many young ones walking away and those still in that are hard line stunners look unhappy. Those who do not shun seem happier with themselves I have noticed that. Thanks for comments I carefully read them all. Because I have learned one thing in life do not tell people how they should feel or think because they have free will. That even includes you bethel lurkers.
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February 13, 2017 BOE Re: Memorial and Special Talk
by wifibandit infebruary 13, 2017 to all bodies of elders re: memorial and special talk.
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Need your honest opinion
by poopie inthis is the scenario there's a guy who is df and being shunned big time.
we'll he needs a place to stay since he can't stay with his family you know the shunning thing well another jw in good standing says he can stay with him .the df guy is delighted but a little problem the elders are going to find out the df guy car parked at jw house.
no one in the area knows he's df because it's 90 miles from the cong he was df in so i told him he's takeing a risk but he says i'm going to show love to this person no matter what..
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This is the scenario there's a guy who is df and being shunned big time. We'll he needs a place to stay since he can't stay with his family you know the shunning thing well another Jw in good standing says he can stay with him .The df Guy is delighted but a little problem the elders are going to find out the df Guy car parked at Jw house. No one in the area knows he's df because it's 90 miles from the cong he was df in so I told him he's takeing a risk but he says I'm going to show love to this person no matter what.
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I'm confused.
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Last I checked it was a free country who or what gives you the right to tell others how to think or feel while I respect your opinion you are not the boss of other people's minds you were taught well how to control others hmmm where did you get that?
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Interesting comment at circuit assembly demo homosexuality
by poopie indemo talking about view of girls comeing out as lesbian.
comment was we respect lesbians.
but i was thinking some do not respect a person enough to speak to them at kh if there df wow..
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Demo talking about view of girls comeing out as lesbian
Comment was we respect lesbians. But I was thinking some do not respect a person enough to speak to them at kh if there df wow.
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Brother Hitting on Df'd Brothers Wife at KH
by poopie ininteresting story i have a friend who is df but his wife still faithfully goes to meetings.
there's a single brother in the cong that is always flirting with his wife.
well at a recent meeting my df friend decided to show up to check this brother out.
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He said his wife feels uncomfortable around him also she told him whenever he come over to say hi another elder is scurrying over to listen to conversation.