Posts by ashitaka

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SINGLE or MARRIED : What do you LIKE and DISLIKE

by frenchbabyface in

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single or married or living with someone (if you can talk about).

what do you :like in your situationdislike in your situation.

for better understanding please tell us also your age.

ashitaka

Well, I've been married for five years, with no kids. My wife and I married in our late teens.

I have to say that we've had a wonderful time being married. We give each other the space we need, and we don't harp on each other when times are hard financially.

We have friends separately and together. It's a great balance.

I think it's healthy to be married only if you find the right person. The problem is, you really won't know that until you're married and go through some hard times. Sometimes, as in our case, it's worth the risk.

Big rule of thumb, though. DON'T HAVE KIDS UNTIL YOU SPEND SOME YEARS BEING TOGETHER AS A MARRIED COUPLE.

Some of our other friends who married had kids right away, and they are miserable.

As for us, we travel to other countries and continents, we buy each other gifts, and have plenty of time to spend doting on each other. Kids change that, and you have to be really ready for that kind of garbage.

ash

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The $#!+ has hit the fan...

by Badger in

ok, i've been on here for a week now, so i should start a thread...'bout time... .

this kind of stems from the problem that set my doubt blender on puree to begin with.

about nine months ago, my wife (who i was separated from for two years) confessed to sleeping around.

ashitaka

You have a 300 pound gorilla throwing feces around your apartment, too?

ash

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HARSH FINAL COURT DECISION IN VICKI BOER V. WATCHTOWER TRIAL

by hawkaw in

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i have some unique and troubling news.

i just got off the telephone with scott boer, vicki boer's husband and before that vicki.

her honour, justice anne molloy, has just ruled on the legal cost issue in the boer case.

ashitaka

Abhorrent.

She should declare bankruptcy, stick those bastards for the costs, and send them a videotape with her telling them to take their legal costs and shove it up their asses.

I hope they all suffer for what they did to her.

ash

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Just another email to Quotes

by Quotes in

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> is it wrong for a corporation to make revisions on a matter?

where as if a jehovah's witness elder does such a .

> be a collection of quotes defending what jehovah's witnesses believe today.

ashitaka

Quotes.....thanks God for logic. I can't imagine what kind of a response you'd get, if any....LOLOL

ash

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Mating bulls

by Simon in

first joke of the week.....

a man took his wife to the rodeo and one of the exhibits was that of breeding bulls.

they went up to the first pen and there was a sign that said, "this bull mated 50 times last year.

ashitaka

LOL. Love that joke. I'm surprised he's in stable condition, though. Ha.

ash

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US remake of UK hit sitcom Coupling starts tonight

by ignored_one in

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hi,.

just noticed on nbc's site.. http://www.nbc.com/coupling/.

ashitaka

Why watch the american version? (Blech)

Just watch BBC America, they show it on there. Not hilarious, but an amusing show.

Aztec, you like my show, huh?

ash

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Avoiding df by threatening suicide!

by avishai in

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friends

i have heard the rumor more than once that people have avoided df'ing by threatening to kill themselves if they are df'd.

has anyone else heard of this?

ashitaka

Brother Zenke's response, " That's their decision." He was not concerned at all.

It wouldn't surprise me. They value a dead dog more than DF'd people....more fuel for the JWs immediate eradication.

ash

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Post a pic of the child that you were,,,,,,,,,,in honor of healing

by LyinEyes in

most of you know that i have moved back to my old house, and in the process, had lots of boxes to go thru.

i have found so many treasured moments of my life, things like my kids, my family, etc.. for just a couple of hours lately i have been putting alot of my pictures when i was young on my personal file, just because they are the only copies i have of them.. i heard it once said that when you have pain in your past , your childhood, that you should look at that picture of the 8 or 9 year old you once were and enbrace her,, or him.

i have done that, and i can tell you it opens the door to so much healing, so much compassion for yourself, something that you as an adult really need to move on.

ashitaka

Beer in Eagles cups, Moey dearest.

Yo, give us a call later this week if ya wanna.

ash

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Post a pic of the child that you were,,,,,,,,,,in honor of healing

by LyinEyes in

most of you know that i have moved back to my old house, and in the process, had lots of boxes to go thru.

i have found so many treasured moments of my life, things like my kids, my family, etc.. for just a couple of hours lately i have been putting alot of my pictures when i was young on my personal file, just because they are the only copies i have of them.. i heard it once said that when you have pain in your past , your childhood, that you should look at that picture of the 8 or 9 year old you once were and enbrace her,, or him.

i have done that, and i can tell you it opens the door to so much healing, so much compassion for yourself, something that you as an adult really need to move on.

ashitaka

Yep, that's me. See how sweet I was? (I actually was planning my devilish plans while feigning sleep.)

ash

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Who Is Your Favorite U.S. President?

by Black Man in

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well, who and why?

ashitaka

George Washington

He gave up what was basically an offer by the British Empire to be the Emporer of america. He declined, and beat the hell out of the 1700s Brits. He showed guts, resolve, and gave serious respect to a fledgling country. Besides that, he instituted a tradition of the two term limit, which was ratified in 1942 if I remember right.

ash