I think that it made her become haughty while she did not know. (This is my impression)
I couldn be wrong but I don't think 'haughty' is still a word.
Just kidding, I think this is just a language issue - it comes across as though you are overreacting.
At the end of the day their are things we need to protect legally (e.g. this site) and ethically (e.g. Ray Franz's books)