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Women ....

by Celtic in

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women.. they're a rummily scrumptious lot.. take breasts for example.

from a mans point of view, how much better can life be, when you got a beautiful pair of scrumptious breasts to kiss and cuddle upto.

if god was a breast, i'd love him to bits.. breasts.

Purple

Sounds like Celtic and a few others in here should get together and appreciate some of those breasts he likes to play with!

Has anyone ever invented a false pair for men that look and feel like the real things and they can take to bed and ummm "cuddle up" with? If they did I reckon they might make a fortune and rid the world of needless marriages . Ooooo did I say that?? What me said???????? Who said that??? Not me??? I dont like that Sam I am????????

Honestly my point was that there is a person attached to the breast, no matter what they look like. If they point, perk, chirp, sway, sag and point to the floor, there is a person with feelings and emotions and all no matter what they look like. With that said I will also add that when you lie on your back they all do the same thing anyway and thats collapse inwards anyway!!!!!!!!!!

So names hey??? Prescious ones?? Master????? Sassy and the nipples???????? Have to find out the story behind that one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Good and Bad

by Undecided in

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last night i was invited to my brothers birthday party.

he turns 70 on tuesday.

we had a lot of fun.

Purple

Know how you feel undeceided. Nearly all of my mums family died before they were 60 including my mum, 52 when she died 10 years ago on Feb 10, which also happens to be my birthday! Makes you realise how precious family is, even the bad ones are still family. Makes me mad when I think I grew distant from my mum because of the troof and lost precious time because I was os busy pioneering and stuff. She died thinking I didnt love her or care.

Take care of yourself during this difficult time and be gentle on yourself!

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Women ....

by Celtic in

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women.. they're a rummily scrumptious lot.. take breasts for example.

from a mans point of view, how much better can life be, when you got a beautiful pair of scrumptious breasts to kiss and cuddle upto.

if god was a breast, i'd love him to bits.. breasts.

Purple

Well yes they are wonderful things from a man's perspective anyway.

Women are so blessed with these lumps of fatty tissue that hang or perk from your chest. Its so wonderful to be completely ignored as a person and be judged by their size, to be totally discounted as a person if they are small, to be adored as an object if they are large. They hurt your back, ache for no reason, get real heavy certain times of the month, get sore as well. Low and behold if you get [pregnant you get them sucked, then mastitis (sp?), cracked nipples and so on.

Then as you get older and gravity takes hold they sag and men reject them because they are natural and sag. Then you have the absolute proviledge of buying expensive bra's shoving them into unnatural shapes and positions and paying through the nose for the privildge. Then sociaty says you cant be natural and have saggy so there is the pressure of getting implants to try to keep nature at bay.

Its so nice when you walk into a bar or a room with men knowing that you wont get anyone looking at any other features other than your boobs. You try to spend the first half of your life hiding them and the rest of your life packaging them, trying to enhance them, and then go back to hiding them when they sag.

Now most men would be horrified that I state that that is what happens but having been on the end of a decent pair for most of my life (since the age of 2) I have had 36 years of experience. Dont forget that when you look, ogle and so on, there is a person attached to them with feelings, emotions and lots of other things as well. How would like to be judged by your ummmm below "package" alone????????

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Mushy Goat Musings (thinking out loud)

by Billygoat in

almost three years ago i came to this site out of curiosity.

i remember lurking a few days before coming out of my stupor from everything i read.

it was like i was hungry and hadn't eaten in month.

Purple

Hey Billygoat

Firstly I loved the title of this thread! I will laugh all day about it. Secondly I just have to say this about people who are nice to your face and talk about you behind your back..THey must be a JW!!!!!!

No seriously my thought is this...they are the one with the problem not you. The point you make is great about just becuase they say it it isnt true. Thats great you realise that but you are still hurt about it. I would confront them. I dont care who they are or what their position is. They are just human and need to be put back on their stool. How dare they judge you in that manner and not have the guts to confront you. What a coward. Dont let them get away with it. Inform them that if they have anything to say to at least have the courtesy to say it to your face and not behind your back. Then report them for slander or libel (sp?). They are damaging your reputation, why let them?? Stand up for yourself girlfriend, dont let one weak individual crush yor, your image and your reputation and think nothing about it! You are worth more than that. That person will continue to do it until you stop it.

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But I Wont Cry For Yesterday....

by Pleasuredome in

a positive message for those who are feeling down.

after a year of being out of the 'mind prison', things seem to be moving in the right direction for me.

i've met the people and am doing things that will make a real difference in my life.

Purple

Or you could look at anytime spent in the Borg as helping you realise a lot more about life than maybe you ever did. I decided to become involved so I dont cry about wasted time...it wasnt wasted I honestly believed in what I thought about at the time. I also enjoyed some of the time in the Borg, met a lot of people I never would of and got to experience so called true religion. It made me realise a lot about life, about waisting time and standing back expecting things to happen. I am the person I am today because of what I experienced yesterday. I have regrets but I also learnt and it was a part of my journey on earth. So grow becuase of the experience but get on with life whilst you have the chance.

Hey I just heard that a 17 year old youth was killed not 500 meters from my house at 3.00 am this morning on the radio news...does this reinforce the live for now message cause you honestly never know what is around the corner waithing for you..good or bad......

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My dream about dying early.

by UpAndAtom in

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i had a dream in which i was in a large auditorium - it was crowed with many people... heck it was full.

then god walks onto the stage below and thanks us all for coming.

it was a light-heated meeting of sorts.. but also had the feeling of business-like efficiency.

Purple

When I was growing up I had a premonition that I would die by my 30th birthday. When I was 28 I was diagnosed with Diabetes type 2. My first thought was aha! So this is what is going to kill me. Whilst it almost did I was older than 30. Infact soon I turn 39 EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW why did I put that in writing?????????????????????

I often have dreams about death and not long after something major changes or I move on.

Death is a part of life too, everyday infact if we only look around and realise it. I think its only natural to feel our own mortality and wonder when it will happen to us. Heck sometimes I think we would even galdly accept it taking us if the circumstances are right!

I wouldnt worry about it too much. Even if it were to come true you only have today anyway so make the most of it. God speaking to you hey?? DOnt tell a shrink you may get more attention than you ever wanted on that one!!!!!!!!

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Jerry Springer Show...

by Elsewhere in

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now that i've got some time on my hands during the day i noticed something odd about the jerry springer show.. it seems like every time it is on, one or more people are on the stage naked and waving their arms around and yelling.

why the hell do people on that show feel so compelled to take off their clothes?.

Purple

My only experience of that show was through an austin powers movie, the second one I think. No one got there Beep clothes off in that beep part??? Beep beep beep beep beep beep!

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Is it ok for a man and a woman to live with each other wihout being wed

by fearnotruth22 in

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sometimes it may not be possible to get married for a lot of reasons so is it ok for a man and a woman just to live with each other?

Purple

Umm hate to say that statistics show in Australia that the piece of paper dosnt make the bond stronger. Only 40% of people are worrying about getting married and then 2 out of 3 end up in divorce. I persoanlly know of many relationships where they lived together happily for many years, got married and then broke up within a few years. Having been married for 18 years I struggled because of the piece of paper but in the end it didnt mean anything. However that piece of paper is costing me hundreds of dollars now. In AUstralia after 11 years of marriage you are entitiled to 50% of everything BUT if you lived together its only 6 years. How unfair is that?

I personally think marriage as an institution is on the way out, reflecting the major shift in society away from tradition, commitment and so on. Long term married couples are cute and everybody loves them but how hard was it and what was the pressure to stay together no matter what? How many shattered lives are around becasue of marriage???

Okay so obviously I am against marriage because of a very bad experience of my own. I have also seen many bad marriages and people put up with it because they are too afraid to leave and such. Why live in misery?????

Hey if you are in a great marriage then good for you, but realise theya re the exception today rather than the rule. People who live together also have bad relationships and break up, but the breaking up is not as hard legally speaking I mean, not emotionally, but if you are worrie dabout the break up before you are together then I would question whether you should live together anyway.

However I would only ever live with someone and have a clear understanding of it we ever break up then.......

Hey once bitten twice shy.........

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ANSWERS ON A POSTCARD TO A NEWLY ENGAGED MAN

by josephus in

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its been a while but i wanted to tell you that ive just got engaged to a great girl.. while i love her, her family are pressuring me to set a date and book a hotel!

im only engaged 4 days so i think its out of order.. please give me suggestions on how to deal with mother in laws without ending relationships.. her mother is insisting on church, cake, food and tells me her son has to be in the bridal party.

they want me to go to thier church sio i can get married thier , but as you kinow im not keen to join another church so quickly.. i only wanted to show her i loved her and was serious, but not this serious so soon.. am i wrong ?.

Purple

Is it because setting the date and arranging everything makes it seem real? Its a natural part of getting engaged and ultimatley married, mummy just wants to make sure you are going ahead with it and not messing her daughter around.

Men dont understand that this is something that a girl plans all her life with her mum, so the plans are made before the man comes into the picture. Once the engagement happens the wheels are set in motion and you cant stop it. What I see now is that less emphasis should be put on a one day event and more on what your relationship is like and whether it has any strength and staying power. It takes a moment to say I do but a life time to live up to that statement.

Just be clear with your fiance and her mother. Start off with lets talk about this....I love you and ultimatley want to get married but I dont want to rush. Then look at the mother and father and say I respect that you want the best for your daughter so I want to make sure I am the best for your daughter and we need time to build a good relationship without the pressure of a wedding at the moment. We will have the day you want but if I feel pressured and rushed then the day wont be as good for me so here is what I want to suggest...........

That way you gain respect from the parents and you are all clear about what it is that you want to happen. Dont let it all just happen to you, but do it in a respectful manner, talk to the future in laws, communicate. Afterall, after the day is over the new life with a new partner begins and you have to deal with that after for the rest of your days together. The actual day is over in a day, costs an absolute fortune, is the focus of everything...everybodies lives gets placed around the day and you often hear the phrase...after the wedding.... why?????? It s just one day, one event over in 30 mins...

take control now.........if you are feeling like this after 4 days what is it going to be like later, discuss and dont be dictated to.........

49

Why Depression Sucks.

by shamus in

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because you can make jokes and appear "happy" at the drop of a hat, meanwhile, you're being chewed up from the inside out.

because you can't learn to take one day at a time because your good days are always overshadowed by knowing that you're going to just slip back down again.

it's inevitable.

Purple

I hate how I feel inside and not understanding why depression is such a part of my life. At the moment its getting to the stage where I need to go back on some pills. They help me act on a more even keel type of thing. I have found its no use trying to make people understand that dont suffer from depression. THey have no idea so why try to help them understand? I have made myself sick in the past trying to help others understand when they did not have the capacity to understand. So I look at myself and developing coping mechanisms to try to avoid the little pills. I do feel better when I am on them but I know its only a matter of time before I want to go off them and then the cycle starts again. When its chemically related there is not much you can do about it. DOesnt matter what the trigger or event is that triggers it you are left with this feeling inside.

In me its a hollow empty feeling, a crushing overwhelming feeling of emptyness and pointlessness. I try to avoid the soul tearing self destruction but sometimes it creeps in and there is nothing I can do about it. I just keep busy, keep the tears at bay as best I can and accept that the chemicals are playing up again, life sucks majorly, no one wants to go out with a crusty, fat old hag thats about to turn 39 and stuff like that. Sheesh I even went to a lesbian dance with my step sister (I didn't know thats what is was) and couldnt even get picked up there! Not that I am having a go at lesbians or anything like that! The point is why am I so ugly that no one can stand being near me. Opps there goes that self destruction mode again..........