I do not believe in feminism as it is sold to the public - feminism has now probably outlived its usefulness, at least in first world countries.
It was necessary in the 70s, but not today.
If you go through all the Western countries, most women don't self ID as feminists. In the UK, US, Australia, etc., only a minority of the women are feminists.
I believe true equality comes from earning your way - quite right.
Thing is, crazy third- and fourth-wave feminists don't want equality - what they actually want is special treatment.
So, we get crazy feminists cherry-picking data such as 'only a third of STEM workers are women', which totally ignores the fact that there is gender imbalance in a whole range of jobs.
(Think about it: do you really think there's a 50-50 gender representation in brick-laying, oil rig operatives, sewage maintenance workers, fire fighters, stunt drivers, nurses, beauticians, etc.)
My take on the current situation: feminists are failing many many women by implying that they can have it all - hands-on motherhood to 3 kids and making senior partner in a law firm or becoming company CEO. And it's bullshit advice, if we're being honest.
The world's a tough place - to accomplish anything worthwhile you need to make sacrifices.
The good thing is that most women are far too sensible to be completely taken in by current feminist bullshit