I DA'ed myself around 2 months ago. Got away from my abusive marriage. Happy to do that.
I get a new job, one my ex doesn't know about (so she can't find me) and I'm happy. I like my workspace. I like my co-workers. I enjoy thework. Great times.
Lo, on monday, someone NEW is starting here... someone from my old hall. So far they have pretty much ignored me, and hopefully we won't have to interact too much (but potentially we could), however, it has cast a real pall over my space here at work. I was feeling more fear around it on Monday and Tuesday. However, an insightful coworker advised me to "F$k 'em". Seems like a good plan.
How would you deal with this? Should I go plant CoC on her chair when she goes to washroom? :)
Ironically enough, my brother works here too, and he is a much bigger apostate then I ever was. ;) He posted on here waaay more than me (under the guise of Moxy).
Well, have to see what happens.