want to get close to people but always back off !!!

by boy@crossroads 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • boy@crossroads
    boy@crossroads

    A lot of good posts !! Thanks to everyone.

    Rebel:

    I like what you had to say. Very thought provoking.

    Thanks also to Just tickled and to everybody who can simpathize with this issue !!

  • one
    one

    Let's face it...

    Those xjw who have real problem associating with wordly people is just becasue inside xjw know they dont agree with the general way of thinking of "wordly" people.

    Been there done that.

    For too many wordly people i have known it is the norm to lie, play mind games, curse, smoke, drink a lot and use of drugs etc etc. I for one can't go along with stupidity.

    However many xjw are reluctant to do things that they know is not good for their health.

    Generally speaking i consider "weak", dont even trust people who smoke too much. To me, I have observed that heavy smoking is just a "sign", a symptom.

  • AshtonCA
    AshtonCA

    I have this same problem. I am bad at keeping friends. I always find something wrong and end up getting upset and stop talking to them. I hate that about myself. My mom does it, she's doing it to me now.

    Ash

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