I think sugarbritches said it appropriately"
vWhy would I want to spend forever with people who don;t want to spend now with me?--Sugarbritches
That really hits home. What a sad state of affairs that one can't see or enjoy a new born infant.
I am convinced that JW like the fact that they are the only ones who will survive and the rest of the world will die. Yes it is blackmail pure and simple.
That line they use, oh you ought to be ashamed of yourself, maybe now you'll realize that you hurt Jehovah and will come back to him.
Blow me away, they are so condesending. They could care less about you. Maybe just ones on personal family feels the anguish of not being able to shun. But even Jesus never shunned anyone.
Shunning accomplishes nothing but pain and anguish to the person who ends up being at the recieving end.
Please realize that you are loved here.
Orangefatcat knows your pain.