by logansrun 43 Replies latest social relationships
I've come to a new conclusion: Don't ask for relationship advice on discussion boards. Since my love life (or lack thereof) has developed an unsavory, if not degenerate, reputation I have vowed to leave the subject off this band-width.
Bradley.....of the "I must like torturing and humiliating myself" class
Sorry guys - my wife was dating somebody at the time and I knew that - but I asked her out on a date anyway - we became girlfriend and boyfriend and we later got married,
Who said anything about cheating? Who's to say she wouldn't just dump her boyfriend and take me on? ... I wouldn't go out w/someone who was dating someone else at the same time.
Well, I wouldn't object to dating someone who wasn't single - if everything was out in the open, which means Ms. Hot Stuff's partner would have to know and approve.
Check out alt.polyamory. I'm serious.
gently feral
I've come to a new conclusion: Don't ask for relationship advice on discussion boards. Since my love life (or lack thereof) has developed an unsavory, if not degenerate, reputation I have vowed to leave the subject off this band-width.
Probably the best bit of advice in this whole thread. Cyberlovin' is just lame. Use it for porn and porn only.
Bradley:
Bradley.....of the "I must like torturing and humiliating myself" class
But it's so much fun
If they are in a serious relationship, then I'd suggest leaving her big knockers well alone.
If they are both just casually dating, then what's to lose?
ditto to what LT said....humiliation, big knockers and all
Anybody thought about trying honesty here? Sit her down and let her know in no uncertain terms that you are interested in her, but you understand that she has a current boyfriend (because you heard her offhand remark about his being sick one day). Then ask point blank whether the relationship with the boyfriend is serious and whether you might have a chance with her at some point. All she can say is, "No way, Jose Brad," and she just might say something you'd like to hear.
Wrong, and very sleazy. Quite slithering, like a snake!
DY
Keep in mind your cosmic debt. We all have to pay the cosmic debt. Somehow I really believe this... But as far as her having someone else, and her cheating on you if you two get involved, I believe is an old myth. People cheat for varying reasons, she may get involved with you and decide that your the one and you two could very well live happily ever after. But don't count on it. Marriage rates in this country are going to hell. Of course thats another story for another time. Your intentions toward this big breasted damozel are noble are they not? Later' Merc'
You live but once, live it well.
