When I was younger, the answer would have been an ecstatic yes.
Now, it's no way Jose. When I met my husband 13 years ago, what he saw was what he got. If he didn't like it, he could just move on. I never met a man, then or now, that could make me give up my individuality. I will change when I am *ready* to change. I am not being a horse's ass, although some might think it, but as in my favorite song: I'm living my life, under my terms. I'm callin the shots, as far as I can see. I don't owe nobody nothing, I don't answer to a soul. Might not work for you, but it works for me."
When he complains (and he does at times) about my vices, habits, opinions.. he gets the old "you married it" refrain. When I complain about his, I get the same thing. We both knew what we were getting into when we got married. Luckily, we're both people that are committed to each other, and committed to our marriage. We're also best friends, which helps a great deal, and we don't renege on contracts. I consider myself to be a woman of my word, and I try very hard to be honest in all my dealings. That gets me into trouble at times, but it is alot easier to handle than the trouble you get for telling lies.
Country Girl