I say there is nothing wrong with the different way we handle things but don't try to tell me the difference does not exist! Maverick
Yes, Maverick there are differences in the two sexes. Where I thought you sounded bitter is in your earlier comments where you singled out women.
And in most cases I share at least half the blame. But I bottom line things with other people, men and women. Forget what they say...watch what they do! We all have buttons that can be pushed, and they are never reasonable, they are twists in our personalities. They help make us who we are. Men and women are different...I love the difference!
Here you speak of both sexes. This is much more fair and shows you aren't just singling out women. We do have differences, we wonderful men and women. My point is that the differences do not keep us from getting along. Unreasonable people come in both sexes. Reasonable people come in both sexes. Two reasonable people can communicate and get along.
I have enjoyed your posts so much. I just never saw you wear your heart on your sleeve like that where women are concerned. It sounds to me like you have some bad matchups with women in the past.
I had a bad match up with my ex. We chose to marry the wrong people. Thank goodness I have the good kind of relationship with Andy now. I consider it a gift from someone bigger than all of us. I have been given the opportunity to see we opposite sexes can get along very well and communicate very well. I am very grateful for this opportunity because I might be pretty bitter these days.
You are saying men and women are different in some ways. I am not disagreeing. I thank you for your fair reply and for clarifying yourself.
Heather