We want people to learn TTATT. We have numerous resources online to draw jws in so that they will wake up. However, I've noted some radical methods that have been used by fellow exjws, and quite frankly, this must stop. There are better ways to wake up jws.
Let me give you examples of what isn't smart and why. These aren't rules, but you will see the reason behind what I say.
Confrontation. This may be you approaching a jw at a cart or while they are going in and out of their meeting places or conventions. While some will say this increases their persecution complex, I will say that in addition, it does have a damaging effect upon the mind. It's not normal for a total stranger to confront a person for their religious beliefs and use emotional tactics to win them over. A strange man speaking to a woman in the street could frighten her view of strangers. It has happened. Would we do that for jws? They don't deserve it, wouldn't we much rather want them on our side, unhurt by us?
Emotional manipulation. If your wife or husband is still a jw, and you have kids who go to meetings. You don't want them to go. Fair enough. But how are you to know how they'll feel about it later in life? What if they as adults accuse you of manipulating them to be atheists, causing them to miss out on "freedom of worship"? I can say for cetainty from personal observation in the org, this has happened many times. Why tell them they should not get baptised at 13, 14, 15.. when they only find out later you planned ahead so that when they reached adulthood they would be discouraged and pressured into listening to your advice? Just be honest and say you never want them as baptised jws. Enough with toying with your kids lives, let them have the freedom you wished to have. This point I know, will get a lot of backlash. But I stand in my opinion that you either are a witness and automatically make a disciple out of your kid, or you become exjw and make sure your kid is an anti-witness. Same as the cult procedure, you're using their lives to become your personal vision for them.
Better ways to tell TTATT.
There are normal, respectful people in this world. However, many of us are damaged mentally or emotionally by trauma of abuse, neglect, or absolute abandonment. It is understandable then that some exjws will act in bizarre ways to shock some and please others. Instead of going into a meeting and disrupting its process by talking or shouting about child abuse, why not hand jws printed information in sealed envelopes? That could be the most discreet and effective way to fool naive minds. Instead of protesting in public, scare them in silent methods by arranging the media to publish information about child abuse in the Borg. Instead of approaching carts and verbally abusing jws, perhaps even pulling away or pushing over their carts, just walk past them. Ignore them. Let them die out by your not giving them attention. And as for your kids, feed them with doubts. As they get older, show them Cedars videos as they'll see a man who isn't a bitter 'apostate'. Don't push them for anything. They are their own people. You'll learn that when they have families of their own.
This is not the community to be provoked, to attack others for their beliefs. It is a cult. But let's remember that they can change. We are proof of that.