Sir 82 were you born in 1982 or are you 82 years old?
I don't see how it's legitimate when the cult is what "yokes" two people within and you're under an indoctrinated personality.
As for sex and speaking from a female point of view, it's very important to be able to connect on this level with your partner for many women.
Do they really want to have sex that bad, thats why they get married? I never understood that.Not everybody of course. Everybody and their own reasons are different. But what I've observed it seems to play a big role. Plus, not to mention that when you are not allowed to have sex, it turns into masturbation that is also forbidden. You will feel even more bad, sexually frustrated and guilty which then increases the change of bad mate choice. Masturbation is yet another smart control tactic.
I never wanted to get married to anyone at the kingdom hall. I was always afraid that I would be trapped.
I know that feeling from the male perspective! LOL