I'm not a JW, nor was I raised JW. For the past three years I have been involved with a man who was raised JW, who at first told me he no longer believed as they did, but who, it has become clear over time, has not told his family or religious community the truth. He has strung me along for years, never introduced me to anyone in his life. He claims to love me but seems to want to keep me a secret. I'm so hurt and confused by all of it. He finally said he feels he can only be his authentic self with me, but he doesn't want to lose his family so he keeps his two worlds separate. He thinks once he is financially independent (he still lives with his parents) that then he will be honest with them and fully commit to me. What should I do? I feel so disrespected. How can he believe theirs is a loving God if he would be shunned for loving me?