One of my many weird ideas -- Babies

by logansrun 47 Replies latest jw friends

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  Scully

  Bradley
  

  There's no reason why you can't do it. Actually this kind of option is offered to a lot of male cancer patients who have no children (or have not completed their family), since chemotherapy and radiation can make you sterile. Egg retrieval and storage is also available to female cancer patients, but the process is a little more time consuming and requires the patient to go on medications to stimulate her ovaries to produce extra eggs, which delays the initiation of chemotherapy and radiation.

  The thing with vasectomies is that it can take from 6 months to a year to clear your system of all your wigglies. So it's important to use an alternate form of contraception and do the follow-up checks in the meantime so you don't end up with a surprise. As a side note, the more you use your system, the faster the remaining wigglies are cleared out.

  Love, Scully
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  nilfun

  Well, if you are there to hold and support her during the artificial insemination procedure, I think that it is possible to preserve a sense of intimacy even though no actual sex would be involved in your child's conception. If done right, you both could probably make it into quite a powerfully bonding experience.
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  logansrun

  Heather,

  You can't take all the consequences out of sex. You can only reduce the risks.

  Yes, that's why I have the "sperm-bank / vasectomy / de-thaw when you're ready" idea. Reduces the risk of unwanted pregnancy.

  But when the risks could involve an innocent child suffering someday then why risk it? I have heard of sperm banks using men's sperm without their permission.

  Considering that most people would sue their asses bigtime, I'd be pretty confident they wouldn't do that. And, even if they did give away my stuff without my permission, where are you getting the "innocent child suffering" bit from? It just doesn't add up.

  All children deserve to know who their fathers are.

  Please see above rebuttel.

  Think of the women you will have this fun with.

  I'm thinking about, I'm thinking about it!!

  They are people, you know?

  People, hunk of meat....what's the difference?

  Every single one of them. You sound like a very nice guy who enjoys the heck out of sex. I don't blame you. It's a lot of fun. I know there are always consequences though and this helps me keep my head on straight about it.

  My head curves slightly to the left.

  Later sugar,

  Bradley
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  logansrun

  Thanks Scully! Finally, a rational female response!

  Bradley
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  logansrun

  Ditto Nilfun. Now your talkin' !

  Bradley
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  FlyingHighNow

  Bradley,

  Here's another idea: have sex with only sterile women. Then you won't have to get snipped.

  Heather S. # 2
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  logansrun

  Here's another idea: have sex with only sterile women. Then you won't have to get snipped.

  Now, that's just plain silly.

  Bradley
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  FlyingHighNow

  Only kidding, Bradley,

  I do think it's a good thing that you want to be responsible about your potential there.

  Heather S. # 2
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  logansrun

  Heather S. #2

  I'm only foolin' with 'ya too!

  Nice name, by the way. You didn't happen to ever be on "Get Smart" ever, did you #2 ?

  Bradley
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  invictus

  there is information about complication from procedure - maybe you can look at it on http://geometry.net

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