Here is what I recommend for what it's worth.
While the Catholic church is getting torn apart by their pedophile issue so is the WTBTS.
Their failed policy....... the 'two witnesses rule'............ like their ban on blood .........is greatly disturbing to any impartial viewer.
While the blood ban accounts easily for a thousand unnecessary deaths a year It is unfortunately writ large in the minds of believing JW's who opt to take their chances to stay in the good graces of their co delusional believers.
But not so with the Pedophiles who are happy campers within their congregations.
The two witness rule and the lax treatment of known and active pedophiles as proven by the Australian Royal Commission (ARC), Has also been proven in the recent Pennsylvania Grand Jury investigations that being a JW pedophile allows for their on going pleasure in the misery of abused children.....most of whom are being raised as JW's.
You don't get to be Jehovah's organization by hiding 1,800 victums and 1006 pedophile attacks on children over a 50 year period of time (ARC) without a single case brought to the police.
How does a God bless an organization like this?
So keep it simple........... tell any 'friends' or family that until the Society is ready to defend these children you guys are disengaging until you see that children are being protected. Put it on them.
As Months and years go by your family and friends who are JW's will see and read about how corrupted the WTBTS and it's followers have been and are. 'Waiting on Jah' doesn't work when an unprotected minor is repeatedly sexually abused.
Their dirty secret, like the Catholic church, is out now and about to get worse.
Stick with that one issue and no one will be able to challenge your position that you are stepping away.............. until the Society has reclaimed the blessing of their God by cleaning up their JW pedophiles.