They say they want a nice guy who treats them well and gives them their space. Well so far with my experience if you treat them that way, all they do in return is lead you on, treat you like crap, play mind games and when someone else better comes along they dump you!!! Then they turn around and blame it all on you!!! I hear so much from them about how creepy their ex's were but it makes me wonder if there is two sides to the story...I can now understand why a lot of men play the games back, although that isn't my style. Well like they say what comes around, goes around. Anyway all the best to everyone here
It sounds as if you have been put through the ringer. I apologize for the bad treatment that you have received from the women that you have dated.
I can't speak for all women, but I do want a nice, good, sweet man. In my past, I could never seem to find one located close enough to start a relationship with.
Most women do want the things that you state. They also want a little excitement. Someone a little unpredictable but in a nice way. The thing to do is not to be too sweet in the beginning. Hold some in reserve. Make them work a little bit for your affection. A woman is not going to appreciate that which she doesn't have to work for.
There are a lot of single, straight, guys out there and they all want a girlfriend. Unfortunately, women are used to admiration and expect it as their due.
Surprise them a little bit. Let them work for your affection. Don't be mean, but don't go out of your way to overwhelm them either. Allow them to get to know you better and vice versa before giving your heart to them.
I hope that this info helps you in your search for a good woman. There are some out there. Be of good faith and keep on looking. It is, afterall, a numbers game.