What spiritual brother who works part-time at a crap job, be able to provide her the life she has at home provided by daddy?
I know a sister that picked a brother to pursue that had a rich jw fathert only to find out that the son was a lazy lay about like her. Both sets of parents are still alive and supporting them in the life they did not have at home but crabbing about it to their social circle.
Or the elders who told a sister that a brother in a nearby congregation was a good catch but she contacted me as well and told her that he was a pedophile, and the elders knew it. She had 2 small children, ended the "romance" and wondered why the elders had not told her the truth.
So the elders will not tell you who is a good catch or a really bad one.