I've learned over the years that I carefully choose my friends...and for valid reasons.
I've noticed that people want my friendship for differing reasons...
Let's talk about men.....With men, this is my most obvious observation:
Lots of men will not hold up their end of a relationship...they deplete me. I don't want to carry the entire relationship load...Glad I've learned that about myself... So I don't pursue those kind of relationships any more....Too much work...trying to "fix" a little boy...
Ideally, there would be a give-and-take in all areas....emotional, physical and spiritual....as in a balanced partnership. Must be the Libra in me...
Astrologically speaking, Libras are compatible with other Libras, also Leos, Sagittarians, Gemini and Aquarians. Any other sign has an unbalancing influence on gentle and refined Libra.
Besides, compatibility with me...requires that a man has gotta know how to ballroom dance......otherwise there is the element of frustration. Frustration -- with me -- occurs when I am not living up to my potential.
I have a date this week with a fellow who has three of my main ummmmm... "basic requirements"...he is taaaaaallllll ...over 6'.....he is a ballroom dancer....and he is spiritual..... Oh... He's a non-smoker...that's nice, too........I don't know what Astrological sign he is yet.
I'll keep you posted!!!