Your Existing Situation
Sensitive; needs esthetic surroundings, or an equally
sensitive and understanding partner with whom to share
a warm intimacy.
Your Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable. Has an
unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards
are as high as her own, and to stand out from the rank
and file. Her control of her sensual instincts
restricts her ability to give herself, but the resulting
isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow herself
to merge with another. This disturbs her. as such
instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; she
feels that only by continued self-restraint can she
hope to maintain her attitude of individual superiority.
Wants to be loved or admired for herself alone; needs
attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.
Your Restrained Characteristics
The situation is preventing her from establishing
herself, but she feels she must make the best of things as
they are.<P>Insists that her hopes and ideas are
realistic, but need reassurance and encouragement.
<P>Circumstances are such that she feels forced to compromise for the
time being if she is to avoid being cut off from
affection or from full participation.<P>
Your Desired Objective
Intense, vital, and animated, taking a delight in
action. Activity is directed towards success or conquest
and there is a desire to live life to the fullest.
Your Actual Problem
Takes a delight in action and wants to be respected
and esteemed for her personal accomplishments.
Your Actual Problem #2
The fear that she might be prevented from achieving
the things she wants leads her to play her part with an
urgent and hectic intensity.