I am going to check back in a couple of hours to see what happened.
James and your soul mate I wish you the best for a loving reunion. Sounds like she may have fueled her total rejection of you because of her first husband. Hopefully she is at a point where family matter's. Bypass any argument re JW's or you being right. Just share family history.....the good parts.....be the most loving and caring person you can be even if it kills you! lol