So sorry. I wish you happiness in this new chapter of your life.
Another marriage bites the dust ...
Sorry to hear that EdenOne. I hope that at some time in the future you will be able to look back on this as a good thing.
Thanks to everyne for your support. It means a lot to me.
I read somewhere that the chinese pictograph for “crisis” is a mix of the pictographs for “problem” and “opportunity”, so I will take my opportunity to build a happier path for myself, and free myself for another relationship, whilentrying to remain in good terms with my estranged ex.
I, too, have been in denial for many years, I suppose.
Such is life.
if she wants happiness by herself... then she is doing both of you a favor.
It is usually the case that adult children figure out what has happened and go on to reject one parent or the other. More than half the fellas I work with are divorced, and I have heard it time and again that adult children want nothing to do with one or the other ...based on who did what. I truly hope your ex is sick. No, not that I want anyone to be sick, but that if her actions can truly be blamed on illness, that’s the only way she will get any sympathy from junior.