I was 'irregular' for a while for genuine issues, sickness,young baby at home etc... this is when I was upset and doubting
Then when I woke up properly I went cold turkey, last meeting over 3 months ago. No problems from the elders.
I had one visit from the CO but I came accross as confused and doubting, with family problems, so as not to ring any 'apostate' alarm bells, since then nothing. My JW husband knows how I feel but we agree to disagree (most of the time).
Like others said, if you don't have parents/close relatives in the org. - just walk away...the GB just confirmed in writing to the ARC that you are free to leave with no repurcussions. If anyone comes after me or my daughter I plan to use that document.