It is odd to me how people will table their situation on an open forum, and then respond with insults when someone responds in a manner which they did not want to hear. That reply was more telling then you probably realize. Go shout at the wind.
Gita: he was condescending to me. And NOOOOOOO I did not want to be condescended to or have my intelligence insulted. I absolutely admit THAT! And I have every right to snap at anyone who insults my intelligence. I posted to vent and for support -- that's it plain and simple. Not to have some elder-like sounding guy tell me I have a "responsibility" and "participated in creating my children" something I obviously already know.
And telling to who? You? What makes you think I care what you think?
Yeru: I know all dads aren't deadbeats and I'm not surprized that you are very responsible, given what I have learned about you. Unfortunately, we don't have a crystal ball and can't tell what our exes will turn out to be like. You actually "miss" your ex????? I want to throw up every time I see mine.
Es: Yeap! I hear ya. I have the worst of both worlds though. My ex is a financial deadbeat who makes sure he has his parental visitation rights every other weekend. Sometimes he picks them up to take them to his mom's and leaves them there while he goes out and parties. The girls hate it. And you know what he does too! He borrows their allowance money and doesn't pay it back. So really I'm paying him.
DJ: That's the flip side of the coin and one of the good things. Working for the school district I do get every summer off and two weeks in December, one week in Spring. I hate to have to give that up.
I'm just sooooo in love with my little guy. I don't have to go back to work until late August but I don't wanna don't wanna don't wanna!!!! I want to hold him every day and be with him all day. Not have some nanny looking after him, taking my place.
Blue-eyes (temper tantrum class)