I remember posting on here - as in actually typing - a few months after resigning as an elder when the phone rang and it was a very sincere, misguided but kindly ex-fellow elder I'll call "J" who wanted to pick my brains about a judicial case we had been on together as the third man had also resigned as an elder and moved away and he, that is "J" - couldn't remember the details.
So there I am, feet up on the desk one afternoon, this site open in mid-post and he says "Young XXX is having problems again, confidentially can you remember "the steps leading to his sin" last time?"
Anyway I offered some help stressing that the young man came from a difficult background and needed kindness and he agreed.
He says "Of course he went on unauthorised websites didn't he?"
I nearly choked on my cup of tea!
Then he says "I really miss having someone with a bit of common sense on the body, it's not the same since you and YYY stepped down!"