To an actual meeting?? No. Never. Could not medicate myself enough to bear it.
To a memorial talk for a family member or friend? It depends, but only for a select few.
Earlier this year my inactive JW uncle passed away. The memorial talk was given by my BIL at the funeral home, (not KH). My wife and I did not stay for the talk, just the viewing. I had not seen any of my JW family in over 11 years prior. I had already been remarried for 10 years and while they treated me with unexpected warmth, they were noticeably cold towards my wife, even she commented on it after we left. It is the reason we left early. Never again.
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