Ideal man is kinda hard...I have liked all sorts of different guys for all sorts of reasons. I always joke with Eyegirl and Scootergirl that I just want a pasty white nerd boy...and in a sense, that's true.
My ideal guy has to be smart. (And by that I mean able to hold his end of the conversation and challenge me in my own thought processes--we don't have to agree on everything, but he must be able to hold his own) He must have a sense of humor--it's a matter of survival for him in order for him to be able to handle me. He has to be quick-witted so he can occasionally put me in my place. Laid-back is a must. I have dated far too many up-tight dudes. I just need a boy I can hang out with. Be it out at a club, making last minute plans or just hanging on the couch with, watch football with, play a few video games with, drink beer with, and just feel comfortable with. That is my NUMBER ONE, requirement actually...Ideal Boy Must Be Able to Make Jo Jo feel at ease.
And of course if I get to pick ideal man, he should be sweet and sensitive. Meaning saying "I love you" is not scary.
So that's my wish list.
SWF, 23, seeks pasty white nerd boy, with big brain, bigger sense of humor, and oversized heart to make shy little nerd girl feel at ease.