If you are the type of father who thinks about not pressuring your
child into following the path of Jehovah, then that is the most absurd
thing I've ever heard"
LOL. Every single brother that lends me an ear (there have been plenty), I always tell them the same thing:
"You can't force your kids to love Jehovah unless it's sincere and it originates with them. Forget about anyone that tells you otherwise."
I then go on to explain that forcing any child to do something against their will can only have disastrous results. I also ask them to look around and see the results from families that have done this.
Every time I explain this to a family or family head I always see how mentally they are battling with the teachings of the org and what I just suggested.