Hi, I can definitely relate to the "confusion" as to who specifically to pray to (Jehovah, Father, God, Jesus). The "confusion" came with a curse and a blessing, like this:
Haven't been a JW for 12 years, but continued all along to believe in God as Jehovah, yet for the most part felt "too guilty" to pray since I wasn't a JW anymore (that's the "curse" part, feeling too guilty to pray much during those years).
Then after learning late last Fall and this Spring about all of the nasty issues with the WT/JWs (UN, silentlambs, big changes in beliefs over the past decade, etc.), I have been "Freed" from the "guilt" of no longer being in the "true" religion, so the desire and longing to pray has completely re-emerged (that's the "blessing" part), yet now I must admit I am a little "confused" as to "who" to pray to.
I appreciated DJ's comments that I should just express my confusion in my prayer! Duh! I never thought of that, but felt somewhat "embarrassed" about it, so would go 'round the circuit of Jah/God/Father, and Jesus too... (rather than adding Jesus' name at the end as we did as JWs).
Also helpful was reading scootergirl's comments. I sort of was thinking along those lines as well (without knowing anything about the 12-step idea), i.e., that I first learned about God via JW's/Jehovah, and He never "did me wrong" as a JW, so as I understand Him, that's who He is to me. I like the name, personally, and the "TV preachers" use it much more often than I ever would have imagined. So JWs aren't the only ones using it. However, I am trying to say "Father" more often as well, since it is a very intimate expression and I would like to become more comfortable using it.
Hope this makes sense!
And for any of us struggling with this, here's my prayer we all find the peace and love we seek in talking to our God and Father about it.